Muslims do you think this is wrong?

Question

A man can have sexual pleasures from a child as young as a baby, however he should not penetrate. Sodomizing the child is okay.If the man penetrates and damages the child then he should be responsible for her substinence all her life. This girl, however does not count as one of his four permanent wives. The man will not be eligible to marry the girls sister. It is better for a girl to marry in such a time when she would begin menstruation at her husbands house rather than her fathers home. Any father marrying his daughter so young will have a permanent place in heaven. http://www.homa.org/

Answer 1

yap i think it's wrong!!!

Answer 2

A man can not have any kind of sexual pleasure but with his wife and the same with women, sexual pleasure and intercorse that is out of marriage is a great sin, and it has its hudud ( punishment and it depends wether the person is married or not)
"The man will not be eligible to marry the girls sister. It is better for a girl to marry in such a time when she would begin menstruation at her husbands house rather than her fathers home."
I never heard of such a thing ( I study relgion at my school... if you have a Hadith, then please do send it to me)

"Any father marrying his daughter so young will have a permanent place in heaven " this is not true, it was said by the Prophet that any man RAISING his daughets under the Islamic values will be with the Prophet in heaven.

So I guess what was mentioned is wrong.

Answer 3

Yes it is - its totally wrong - but since its from Ayatollah Khomeni (who was a shia) and its translated by people who hate him and who really hate islam Id give it a wide berth

Have you see what anti-semites write about judaism and its laws on their websites - what your doing is the same - learning islam from islamophobes is like learning judaism from anti-semites

"A man can have sexual pleasures from a child as young as a baby, however he should not penetrate."

Totally forbidden in Islam

It is a grave and major sin to harm another human being, and especially those unable to defend themselves or who will suffer long-term damage (physical or emotional) from it, such as children.

The rulings of the Shariah have come to protect such harm from being perpetuated in society, and has placed firm, deterrent punishments against abuse.

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=7&ID=9836&CATE=3600&redirect=yes

"Sodomizing the child is okay"

no anal sex is a MAJOR sin in Islam even with your wife

"It is better for a girl to marry in such a time when she would begin menstruation at her husbands house rather than her fathers home."

In Islam its encourage to marry early - when a person is ready for sex they are ready for marriage - why follow the hypocritical way of our society where under 16 have so much sex but its forbidden for them to marry - so sex outside marriage is OK but insode it is wrong!!!

Answer 4

YES IT IS WRONG. that an obsenties, in Islam women can only marry when they agree, they can reject a proposal, babies can't make those choices, that is taking a women by force, doing things not agreed by the women, it is wrong.

Answer 5

Your link is to an anti-Islam web site. Do you really think that is a reliable source for information about Islam? Where in the Quran did you find these statements you claim?

Answer 6

I'm sure everyone knows this is just plain twisted!

Answer 7

ITS WRONG! & men in our religion dont do thosetype of things. just to in form u

Answer 8

In fact, the difference between the Biblical and the Qur’anic attitude towards the female sex starts as soon as a female is born. For example, the Bible states that the period of the mother's ritual impurity is twice as long if a girl is born than if a boy is:



“Tell the Israelites: When a woman has conceived and gives birth to a boy, she shall be unclean for seven days, with the same uncleanness as at her menstrual period. On the eighth day, the flesh of the boy's foreskin shall be circumcised, and then she shall spend thirty-three days more in becoming purified of her blood; she shall not touch anything sacred nor enter the sanctuary till the days of her purification are fulfilled. If she gives birth to a girl, for fourteen days she shall be as unclean as at her menstruation, after which she shall spend sixty-six days in becoming purified of her blood”. (Lev. 12:2-5).



The Catholic Bible states explicitly that:



“The birth of a daughter is a loss" (Ecclesiasticus 22:3).



In contrast to this shocking statement, boys receive special praise:



"A man who educates his son will be the envy of his enemy." (Ecclesiasticus 30:3)



Jewish Rabbis made it an obligation on Jewish men to produce offspring in order to propagate the race. At the same time, they did not hide their clear preference for male children:

"It is well for those whose children are male but ill for those whose are female",

"At the birth of a boy, all are joyful...at the birth of a girl all are sorrowful",

and "When a boy comes into the world, peace comes into the world... When a girl comes, nothing comes."



A daughter is considered a painful burden, a potential source of shame to her father:



"Your daughter is headstrong? Keep a sharp look-out that she does not make you the laughing stock of your enemies, the talk of the town, the object of common gossip, and put you to public shame" (Ecclesiasticus 42:11).



"Keep a headstrong daughter under firm control, or she will abuse any indulgence she receives. Keep a strict watch on her shameless eye, do not be surprised if she disgraces you" (Ecclesiasticus 26:10-11).



It was this very same idea of treating daughters as sources of shame that led the pagan Arabs, before the advent of Islam, to practice female infanticide.

The Qur’an severely condemned this heinous practice:



"When news is brought to one of them of the birth of a female child, his face darkens and he is filled with inward grief. With shame does he hide himself from his people because of the bad news he has had! Shall he retain her on contempt or bury her in the dust? Ah! what an evil they decide on?" (16:59).



It has to be mentioned that this sinister crime would have never stopped in Arabia were it not for the power of the scathing terms the Qur’an used to condemn this practice:



“He hides himself from the people because of the evil of that which is announced to him. Shall he keep it with disgrace or bury it (alive) in the dust? Now surely evil is what they judge”. (16:59)



“And when one of them is given news of that of which he sets up as a likeness for the Beneficent Allah, his face becomes black and he is full of rage” (43:17)



“And when the female infant buried alive is asked for what sin she was killed”(81:8-9).



The Qur’an, moreover, makes no distinction between boys and girls. In contrast to the Bible, the Qur’an considers the birth of a female as a gift and a blessing from God, the same as the birth of a male. The Qur’an even mentions the gift of the female birth first:



“To Allah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth. He creates what He wills. He bestows female children to whomever He wills and bestows male children to whomever He wills” (42:49).



In order to wipe out all the traces of female infanticide in the nascent Muslim society, Prophet Muhammad (S) promised those who were blessed with daughters of a great reward if they would bring them up kindly:

"He who is involved in bringing up daughters, and accords benevolent treatment towards them, they will be protection for him against Hell-Fire" (Bukhari and Muslim).



"Whoever maintains two girls till they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Resurrection Day like this; and he joined his fingers" (Muslim).



“One who brings up three daughters or sisters and is patient in earning for their maintenance till the time they will be married (…) He and I will be in Paradise like this” (Saying this the Prophet (S) showed his index and middle fingers joined)”

And people asked him: “O Messenger of Allah, what if he brings up two of them {daughters/sisters}?”

He (S) replied: “even if two”.

“What if a man brings up only one daughter?” people persisted.

“Even if eh brings up only one daughter or sister” replied the Messenger of Allah (S). (Bihar al-Anwar, Vol. 104, p.99)

Answer 9

ya its completely wrong!!

Answer 10

Wrong wrong wrong...this is absurd!!!!!!