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Why are most of guys all players now days..??

2007-01-08 12:51:47 · 25 answers · asked by dfgfbbmnfg! :o 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

thanks for generalizing us...

2007-01-08 12:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by neff8684 5 · 1 0

NOT all the guys are players. Only the guys you are attracted to.

Is that little nerd in math class a player? Is that quiet guy who hangs out in the library a player? The guy who waits at the bus stop?

The guys that are outgoing, flirty, trendy and popular do tend to be players. They do it because they can get away with it.

Of course most of the players will admit that they are, so why are you asking the guys?

2007-01-08 12:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 1 0

Because the only guys YOU are attracted to are players. So you miss out on all of the guys who are nice, and sweet, and actually give a damn about our relationships. Unfortunetely, the girls seem to overlook us and go right to the ones with PAIN AND HURT stamped on their foreheads. Then they assume all guys are like the 5 jerks they dated last week, while us caring guys sit in the background and swoon for the girls we can never have because they're too close-minded.

2007-01-08 12:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Im acually not sure on that, i was wondering the other day. I think its because they wanna look cooler in front of friends and they think they can get this by being a player.. I hate people like that. If I were a girl i would NEVER EVER date a guy like that..

2007-01-08 12:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by aaronwinner 3 · 0 0

Because football, baseball, soccer, and tennis are just so much fun! Everyone wants to be a player. I think that Michael Jordon and Tiger Woods inspired a whole new breed of players.

2007-01-08 12:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 2 · 0 0

i guess it's because of the culture that we have now. yes more guys are becoming players now. but it's because there are people who thinks it's ok. especially girls. some even treat it as the in thing now. (look at the answers to your question).

but it's nice to see that you don't say that all guys are players. there are still some that aren't

2007-01-08 13:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0 0

Most women seem to be attracted to "players" and many guys are willing to pretend to be a "player" to attract a girl who they are interested in, even if they are really anything but a "player" [like myself].

2007-01-08 12:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1) because of poor parenting. These days many who appear to be parents are nothing but breeders. Sad, but true.

2) Most guys have inferiority complexes & "must prove that they are men by the # of conquests they have." Again , personal Integrity succumbs to vanity. Sad...

3) Guys, in general, just want sex. Girls/women (in general) just want "Intimacy." Girls sacrifice a little self-esteem, by offering sex, "to get intimacy." Again, guys = immature. Girls, bad for us, R more mature.

2007-01-08 13:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by marcus 2 · 0 0

So how old are you? How are are the guys? Sadly, its just in their nature to go after someone who may give them what they are looking for. And that would be sex. Let them know that you like someone, but don't let go of your virtue. Keep your dignity, and your virginity. You will gain some respect in the long run.

2007-01-08 12:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by David L 6 · 1 0

Uhhh... because they can be? Because they've been brainwashed by society, e.g. rap music, MTV/VH1, and porn? Because they like to frusterate you? Because all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy, or however that saying goes?

2007-01-08 12:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Procrastinator2356 2 · 0 0

well to be honest were use to alot of females being the same way like hard to get, teaseing, etc... i myself is not like that. i see both sides playing that players game...

2007-01-08 12:55:29 · answer #11 · answered by archangel8191974 2 · 0 0

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