I like this boy and I herd he likes me but dont realyy no how to talk to him more I have talked to him be4 but I dont really know what to say to him.
2007-01-08 12:44:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start out by just saying hi, asking how is day/weekend was or is going, and just treat him like one of your other friends. see if he wants to hang out with you and your friends (make sure its ok with them first tho :D) and then who knows....maybe he will get the hint that you like him.
don't try too hard....if he starts picking on you or teasing you, thats a good sign. after a little while, if things seem to be going well, tell him how you feel. make sure he gets to know you for you, not who you want people to see, but who you really are.
there was a guy at school i really liked, didnt think he liked me as more than a friend, but after i got to know him, i finally told him i like him a lot and guess what? he liked me too. that was one of the best decisions of my life.
i wish you the best of luck!
2007-01-08 12:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by penguin_girl2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start off with small talk, like hey, whats up? depending on the situation your in like at school, try to speak about somthing common. Like whats going on, current events, talk about your interests & find out what he thinks about them, never ask a question that he'll answer YES or NO to. Ask him somthing that will force him to talk longer & go into details, like what's his favorite songs/music lately, what sport is he into? Stuff like that. Just remember no be natural, imagine that you've known him all your life, don't think to hard about what youre gonna say, & you'll be fine.
2007-01-08 20:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM is the best way to start. First of all, start saying "hey" to him in the hallway..... get with a group of friends after school....justs talking (this just happens natually) and get some of HIS friends in the circle....then He will walk over. which is good just to be close to him if you never say a word
ask him questions.... ask how his [[[sport]]] team is going and such. Any plans next weekend?
go to the movies with a whole group of poeple including him and his friends. (sit by him, on you other side, or of your girl-friends)
before you know it... you'll be talking up a storm!
2007-01-08 20:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Susanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say hey, whats up ask how he has been doing. Talk about any normal things if he like to fish hunt etc....then carry on a conversation with him about the activities. Sooner or later you will come around to going out..
2007-01-08 20:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by juston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act casual around him. thats how i got my boyfriend. my friends ALWAYS told him that i like him and i ended up being the 1st girl hes ever asked out! i am very happy. u dont have 2 say a whole lot. just act like hes ur friend and ask ur friends 2 tell him that u like him or somethin of the sort and act like u didnt tell them to if he finds out.it will work. ive had several experiences. u can e-mail me at dalmatianfest@yahoo.com and ill answer more of ur questions and if they have 2 come from a boys point of veiw ill ask my boyfriend. hell be glad 2 help and so will i.
2007-01-08 20:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by dalmatianfest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I had this same problem. I liked a guy and I met him through friends and I wanted to talk to him more but I didn't kno what to say. Later I found out: just find out things that he likes and talk about them. Also be yourself, don't make things up because he'll find out later.If you're wondering how to ask him out, idk. Im really shy so I always screw things up but, if u really like him, u should ask him because its worth a chance but if you don't want to ruin the friendship and make it awkward in case he doesn't feel the same, jus don't say anything and wait for him.
2007-01-08 20:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by wright2missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Hey" to him and see what he says. He may open up a conversation for you guys. If not, then say "What's happenin'" or something like that. To talk more to guys, start out by asking some questions, and once they answer, you guys can both start to just go with the flow.
2007-01-08 20:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes.
Interests.
Don't make fun of him.
Try and spend time with him
Find out how he feels about you.
Don't make the purpose of your friendship to find that out because if he does like you and you ask him directly after sweet-talking him for a while he'll see right through you, this is common sense people.
(And I thought *I* had trouble talking to girls...who knew girls could have such problems talking to guys, and not even have any information to help us out with it?)
2007-01-08 20:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start off with an easy question like how are you or what are you up to. And start a conversation that is easy and comfortable. Don't complicate things. Good Luck
2007-01-08 20:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact. Say "hello". Ask a question. Be polite. Be yourself. Don't talk bad about another person.
2007-01-08 20:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋