Now im not a stupid person & I know that we have all had infatuations with someone in our life but can this be possible...Can u develop feelings without ever meeting a person & within a short period of time??? I have been chatting on the fone with a man for ages, up to 4hrs a time but we haven't met yet..& he is saying that he feels like he is falling 4 me!!! Its just freaked me out a wee bit!! We r gonna meet up friday & im worried that he has bulit me up too much in his head. Can anyone help with this question??
2007-01-08 12:35:37 · 14 answers · asked by bakebeanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your one of those people who fall in love with a person at first sight, you need to get to know the person a little more before you decide that you are in love with this person. Also i do not think that is a very good idea to meet the guy you never know he might be someone who is a freak and ready to rape you and then kill you and hide you somewhere. Never go alone with him.
2007-01-08 12:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing this guy can possibly love right now is your conversation. If I were you i'd be really carefull about meeting this guy because he's using the word love way too loosely. You know just like everyone else that love takes time to grow, and that's even after you've known someone on a personal level and seen them everyday. Sounds like this guy has some emotional issues that he needs to handle; be carefull.
2007-01-08 12:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Victorious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. A little worrying that he'd tell you, as anybody can see that telling someone you love them before you've met is likely to freak them out. Still, maybe it's a good thing and shows that he is telling you how he feels.
Of course, if you don't feel the same, then this could cause a problem.
Good luck for Friday.
2007-01-08 12:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by The Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, no...liking a person, feeling connected to someone, sharing personality traits..all of these are a definate yes.
But you need to actually be with someone, feel his presence, to truly get a sense of who he is.
I have had an experience with "love at first sight". This was after talking to a man (before actually meeting him) and corresponding via email and the phone. Unfortunately this relationship was not meant to be.
We dated for several months and mutually decided that it was not destined to be the long term relationship we both had initially desired.
It was a good learning experience for me.
I did learn that "love" takes time. Takes getting to know one another, takes seeing anothers lifestyle and learning about one's morals and character.
I was able to end my love at first sight relationship and meet a truly amazing man. He is so supportive, so caring, so kind to me. He is everything I ever desired in a mate.
So...phone conversations? maybe not. But it definately is a start to (hopefully) a wonderful friendship.
2007-01-08 13:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by jan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it is very possible. But watch your back, id be more worried about what your getting and less about what he thinks hes getting.
I'm just saying people feel safer to lie on the phone, than in person. Id have a plan to get out of the date early if needed.
2007-01-08 12:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by BAD KARMA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can fall in love with an image of all the things that the person says to you.....
when you speak for such long periods on the fone, your mind plays tricks on you in some ways..... it races ahead of itself and suddenly you are thinking of marriage n babies!!!
take the relationship for what it is right now.... and enjoy it...
could be great on friday - could be rubbish...
i had the same with my current bf. spoke for 7 hours a day till we met.... had built up all sorts in my head...
luckily it worked out.... plenty of times it doesnt though..
just remember to enjoy yourself and dont think about it too much.
clearly you like him or else you wouldnt be meeting him, would you?
2007-01-08 19:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you guys start talking? I think its too soon to call it "love". Be extra careful when you meet with him on Friday, try meeting in a public place, where there are a lot of people, and don't ever go anywhere with him alone.
2007-01-08 12:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by thisipromisey0u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon. it would desire to be love earlier each thing internet site, or it would desire to take awhile to fall in love, or you could nicely be in love and not are conscious of it or be in love and not admit it to your self. there are maximum of issues like this that take place. It only relies upon who's in touch.
2016-12-16 04:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no- cos he may look like a turd on a string and he may have made lots of notes on what charming things to say. He may have some serious psycho issues too.
2007-01-08 12:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and we'd rather see you on yahoo answers than on yahoo news - found raped and strangled in some ditch somewhere.
2007-01-08 12:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋