My mom is dating this guy i really hate. I see them making out in the kitchen at night what should i do
2007-01-08 12:34:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pretend you wet your bed
scream bloody murder
realize your mother wants to be happy
accept this fact
2007-01-08 12:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by neff8684 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if there's something about the guy you don't like then I'd talk to your mom about it when of course he's not there. But sometimes kids have a time accepting another person in there mom's or dad's life so make sure this isn't the reason you just don't like the guy. I mean your mom deserves happiness too. ;o)
2007-01-08 12:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back in the day, a close friend of mine's mother got involved with a guy that nobody was particularly fond of, it's worked out so far but they have a very strange relationship.
What do other family members think? If you don't have any close family members ask her friend and some of yours who maybe have met him and know your mother what they think.
Eventually, my buddy basically came to the conclusion that so long as she is happy, it's working - sort of. But my buddy and her significant other didn't really interact too much and over time his relationship with his mother isn't what it could be.
2007-01-08 12:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mark T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom must have a reason for dating him. And you must have a reason for hating him. You two need to sit down and talk to find out why each feels the way the other does.
2007-01-08 12:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by dpon62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have friends on the local police force, you may want to ask them to run the guy's record and see if he has ever been arrested or has any outstanding warrants. If this turns out to be the case, you should definitely inform your mother.
Otherwise, just allow her to make her own choices especially if they are not affecting you directly.
2007-01-08 12:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll pass hopefully with yout Mom. I could give you a better answer if you would tell us how long they've been dationg. Also if you don't like the guy, try to tick him off all the time, making him break up with your MOM.
2007-01-08 12:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed, as long as he's not abusive to her, it would be best to look the other way when you see them kissing & stuff. Don't interfere with her love life she's a grown woman. How would you feel if you were inlove with someone & your mom wanted to get rid of that person because she didn't like them? Think of it this way, what's sronger, your dislike for him, or yor love for her?
2007-01-08 12:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you hate any guy your mom dates?
2007-01-08 12:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by VooDoo Kydd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you may think it is inapproriate for your Mum to date and making out in front of you is offending, but if she having a relation with this person, it would not be dating,as such. Privacy and 'Get a room would come to mind'
2007-01-08 12:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Pauline K 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg i have almost the same problem. try talking to you mom and saying u really dont like this guyo r get him pissed so he dose something to u and you can tell you mom abou it ! HAHA
2007-01-08 12:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by lilone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to your room and ignore it. There's not much you can do about it except to respect who your mom chooses to go out with.
2007-01-08 12:37:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋