I've been dating this guy for almost 5 months. I like him and he likes me. His work is pretty demanding and we only see each other once a week. How can I get him to spend more time with me without whining? I hate having to "train" guys.
2007-01-08 12:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by Pookah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough one. He is married to his job.
You could have quality time together during that one day per week. Such as dinner and a move. If he is a good guy, be thankful you found him. Lots of jerks today.
2007-01-08 12:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tipped your hand by saying that you have to "train" guys. People who care for one another don't need to be "trained" and are not looking to "train". What? are you going out with a dog that you found at the SPCA?
You got into the relationship knowing that his work was demanding. Don't enter into something expecting the other to change just because you get laid every now and again. He'll start spending more time with you when he thinks the situation is worth it.
2007-01-08 12:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by mjatthebeeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy doesnt work that late
then invite him over for dinner
interrest him so he wants to spend more time with u by entertaining him
2007-01-08 12:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he do besides work? Get interested in the things he likes and do those things with him.
2007-01-08 12:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋