ok, there is this guy that i asked out to a movie, he said maybe. I asked for sunday and he said i duno if i want to go yet. Should i remind him like say " oh remeber that movie thing? do u wanna go" or sumthing like that? should i? if so what should i say?
2007-01-08 12:15:43 · 13 answers · asked by lilone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you don't remind him. It just makes you look like you're chasing him. If he really wanted to go he wouldn't have forgotten. Don't mention it again. And next time, make him ask you.
2007-01-08 12:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't remind him. Believe me, he is aware of it and hasn't forgotten. The ball is in his court. If he wants to go he will let you know... But if he waits until the last second, then I would say, "Oh, sorry, when you didn't get back to me I made other plans - maybe next time", and then walk away. That shows him that you are to be respected which is very important.
Wait a week or so and ask him again. He should respond immediately. If he doesn't, then I wouldn't bother with him anymore.
2007-01-08 20:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Do not ask him again. A woman asking you out is not something you forget. Next Mon. or Tues. when you see him tell him you and a friend had a great time and leave it at that. I can tell you for a fact that when a women chases a man, the man runs the other way. Play cool and be a challenge. It's a crappy game, but it's the way it is. We all want what we can't have and don't want what we can. It's the old Boy - Girl theory.
2007-01-08 20:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Wildturkey87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until later in the week... like... 2 or 3 days before.
2007-01-08 20:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Libertina Gimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him anything. He didn't forget you asked. He probably just doesn't want to come out and say no or he just wants to keep you as a back up date. Either way, you did your part, let him come to you now.
2007-01-08 20:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn, how come girls never ask me out? I wish a girl would ask me out, then go on Yahoo Answers to worry about me!
So what's so special about this guy anyway? He must have something to make a girl ask him out.
2007-01-08 20:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....depends on when you asked him. If you just asked him today, give him till about....Thursday? Yeah, thursday or wednesday && then ask. But don't wait till like, friday or saturday because then he might have plans already. Good Lukk!
2007-01-08 20:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with whatever. the girl above me if he realy wants to go then hell tell you dont remind him waite for him to remind you
2007-01-08 20:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by yogi12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you really should remind him. The sooner you do so, the better.
2007-01-08 20:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him. If he truley wanted too, he will tell you. And if not, well I'm sure you can find someone better.
2007-01-08 20:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ellen the Estonian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋