I've been through a lot in my life that has truly effected me in various ways. I watched my mother get abused knowing I couldnt do anything about, and then I had to go to school where kids picked on me because of my weight or either they jus didnt like me because I went out with their boyfriend. So its like now-a-days I just all of sudden start crying, or either I'm in a very sad or quiet mood where I dont feel like talking to anyone. so do you guys think I'm mentally crazy?
2007-01-08 11:40:49 · 23 answers · asked by Tahvia M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Crazy... NO....
Stressed and Depressed.....YES
2007-01-08 11:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Spinner...428 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not crazy. Just confused. You are probably worrying or have worried about many things that may be out of your control.
It happens to many of us, we become anxious trying to get an answer to something at a much quicker pace then it is actually possible. Here is what I mean, some of us may have trouble with spouses, work ,school or financial debts. We start trying to push our way in a direction hoping this or that will resolve the problem and when it does not happen overnight, we become desperate, we may start thinking it will never get resolved, and then we may start feeling alone and that may be there is no hope. But there is...... Think of this the next time you start feeling this way. The fruit vine in order to sustain life needs sunlight and rain, but the vine does not pull itself in every direction trying to find the Sun, or in another direction trying to get the raindrops, eventually the Sun in time will come out and shine upon it and the rainfall will be sufficient to quench it....Then one day, with the passing of time the fruit will blossom.
Know the grace of God will be with you, that you need to take it one day at a time and not lose faith. Be a good person and be strong through him and with him.
2007-01-08 19:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by prayingangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off crazy isnt a psychological term, I'd lean more towards a slight depression, that can be taken care of with some therapy, maybe some Zoloft if it's severe enough, start working out to get rid of the weight problem call the cops if abuse is present in your house, and kids are cruel everyone gets teased and picked on just keep your spirits up by doing things that you enjoy pick up a sport to help you get in shape, tennis is good cardio and it burns fat like nothing else, then when your older and have a great body and a strong mental ability because of being teased you can laugh and everyone else will be choking on their sour grapes, and dont forget to study, keep off of drugs, and dont pal around with losers or else they will all drag you down.
2007-01-08 19:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by deftlychillin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are deff. not mentally crazy at all! you kinda sound like a friend of mine..her mom gets abused and she is also overweight..she gets picked on sometimes and sometimes she can't hangle the stress.. i think its natural that you get upset and cry a lot...its a lot to handle.. just hang in there! it might help to talk to a counselor or something..or maybe just write ur feelings down in a journal
2007-01-08 19:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Amy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not crazy. you are just a little down for what has happened to you. long story short i have not had an easy life myself, but you have to learn that no matter how harsh life treats you, you must get up and keep on going. think that you will not let this sadness beat you and that you will overcome victorious. one hint i can give you is to boost your self steem, you can work out and exersise, you mentioned you were a little overweight, so when you loose weight by exersising your body produces chemicals that make you happy. so just hang in there girl you will make it. by what has happened to you i can tell you are a strong girl. but you need determination to beat this. i beat it and i feel great, and my life started to change around.
2007-01-08 19:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tahvia:
By the way you presented your question I doubt that you are crazy however; it appears as though you have many unanswered questions going on in your mind. You may want to consider some professional advise so that you can move onward and begin to enjoy your life. Try to remember you are human.
Best wishes,
2007-01-08 19:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably some kind of depression, or PTS (Post Traumatic Stress) symptoms .... need to get a psych eval. No you are not crazy .... things that happen in our life sometimes surface later. Check with a psychologist.
2007-01-08 19:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy? No absolutely not. You do sound depressed though. Go to your family doctor and tell him what's going on, he'll probably perscribe an antidepressant for you. Maybe he'll even refer you to a therapist you sound like you have a few things to work out. Good luck
2007-01-08 19:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy? No, Depressed on the other hand? Definately. You should probably seek professional help, and try and get yourself some anti-depressiants. And you need to do it quickly, because most people that have depression that goes untreated end up commiting suicide, and we wouldn't want that!
2007-01-08 20:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you are not crazy. You are just experiecing some emotional unstability. I would suggest you to talk to your school counsellor about your pproblems. Also,if your mom is really being abused, i suggest you to report the police or to social workers...dont let domestic violent ruin your life!!
2007-01-08 19:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by cheeryviola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mentally crazy? No.
I highly recommend counseling. You sound depressed and can get some much needed help.
Good luck to you and God Bless. May you find some peace and happiness in your life.
2007-01-08 19:54:41 · answer #11 · answered by vt_mom_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋