My sister has a ex bf and hes being mean to her hes telling other ppl and her friends that shes a brat and shes so self centerd and she annyoed him and was bugging him and all of this because appently she dident talk to him, and she refused to make sexual contact with him and i feel bad what should i do, im not trying to be nosy she just seems hurt. Oh and she dident even like him in the first place she just said yes because she just went to a new shcool and dident want anybody to hate her. ( she hates her self for doing that btw) anyways he thinks shes in luv with him and achally shes HATES him so much. . . any tips ? ? ? ? Oh and every body thinks hes a total jerk because of what hes doing (ppl dident like him in the begining anyways)
2007-01-08 11:37:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u should just talk to him, but not right away talk to ur sis first to ask her if u can (the worst is to do that and she hating u for doing so , been there DONT !) anyways if u no ur sister is hurting pretty bad just talk to her dont be like "oh ur a cry baby its not that bad!" thats mean so dont, but u should just go up to him and say "stop saying things about my sister that arent true" and also say (if u want) "ur really just hurting ur self by doing so, people r thinking ur a jerk for doing it to, so i recomend u stop" and just walk away i think ur sister wont be mad at u for doing it she'l most likely be mad at u if u say "oh shes up set at u and shes been crying so stop" she'l probally just kill u for telling him that she was upset. so dont do that i REALLY recomend that just tell him the 2nd anser i gave u thats ur best bet (and ur sister will probally be glad! If ur lucky it might even stop the whole thing, that would be the right thing to do)
2007-01-08 14:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Josie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think she liked him a little, because i would have never gone out with someone if i didn't like him; she should talk to him and tell him not to be talking stuff if you are an older brother or the same age as that guy, maybe you can talk to him in a good manner and tell him you don't appreciate him talking crap about her ; if he is a big guy maybe is not a good idea:-) and she should just ignore him or she could tell your Dad to talk to that punk ! that should work!
2007-01-08 11:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by claudia a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just ignore him. He is just trying to get attention.
2007-01-08 11:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his ***. If you can't go slash his tires or whatever, don't let anyone treat you sis like that.
2007-01-08 11:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Brown Bomber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋