ive been dating my gf for 7 months now and i want to have sex with her and i love her but im tired of waiting and i keep bringing it up and she keeps saying just stop talking about it and it will happen but i know it wont. her friend wants to like hook up with me and im tottally thinking about it. i mean i love my gf but there is a physical part of the relationship too. she lets me like finger her and eat her out but she refuses to like touch me and im about sick of it. what should i do?
2007-01-08 11:35:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait for her to be ready. you don't want her to have sex with you in spite of you. do you want her to regret having sex with you later? i understand you have physical needs as a guy but she has emotional needs as a girl. some girls want to make sure they find the right person before they give away something they can't get back. and if you're willing to ruin your relationship with her for one night of pleasure then i dont know if i believe that you really love this girl. and if this other girl is willing to sleep with her FRIENDS boyfriend, then i don't know if i believe this girl is her friend. this all comes down to you...is she more important to you than your need for sex? don't you want your first time with her to be one that you BOTH want?
2007-01-08 11:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jenniferrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deserves more than a sexual pig like you.
Obviously you don't just love her for her. She still kisses you right? You probably aren't old enough (mentally at least) to be having sex in the first place, especially when you can't even spell little things like "totally".
Here's an idea: Marriage.
Maybe one day you'll be lucky enough to know what true love is. But if you think seven months is a long enough time.. then maybe not.
What kind of sick person are you? Obviously you're only using your girlfriend for sex if you are thinking about dating her FRIEND just because she's not ready to move on. Some "love" you've got to offer.
Grow up.
2007-01-08 19:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
respect the fact that she at least has some morals and isn't a h03bag like her friend who will just sleep with anyone. she's probably just waiting so she can be sure that you're the right one, and that she's not making a mistake, and that you dont' just want to be with her because of the sex, but you want something on a more emotional level.
so just express that you love her and will do anything for her, and quit bugging her about sex. that'll make her feel pressured and that's all you want her for. she'll open up eventually. just be patient.
2007-01-08 19:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This should be posted under TOO MUCH INFORMATION! ew. Anyway, leave the girl alone. She has a right to decide when she wants to have sex. 7 months is NOT a long time.
2007-01-08 19:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch well done for lasting 7 months! I suppose it depends how old you both are as to how unreasonable that is. You have to make it very clear what you want and then live with her choice. or not.
2007-01-08 19:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh god. If you are thinking about having sex with your girlfriends friend, you are not in love with her.
Sex is nice, but it isn't everything. If you need a release, masturbate. Stop pressuring your girlfriend.
2007-01-08 19:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by anon 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's being selfish. Congrats on lasting for seven months. You can evaluate where you are in life and decide if you really want to be with her truly.
2007-01-08 19:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sherline 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Considering having sex with her friends just to get your nut doesnt exactly scream "I love you"!! Know what i mean??
2007-01-08 19:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by stangsearchin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you man enough to handle a kid....and all the financial responsibilities that come with a mistake, then whip out your little pecker...
2007-01-08 19:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yea man sounds like true love.
2007-01-08 19:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by BAD KARMA 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋