My bf had a broken heart just weeks before we started dating. Basically his crash (who he really loves) kept giving him mix signals, telling him she wants to be with him but sometimes no. And he decided to quit and met me. We started dating and he kept saying he doesn't want to give me any "labels" when i asked him what are we. We hug, kiss, hold hands, see and talk to each other all the time. But, I still feel like he has feelings for her. Since he've told me that he sees no future with me and that "I" will find another guy in the future when i move out of town, i decided to call it quit. I asked him why r u wasting your time to date me when your objective is to find a nice girl and get married (he is 26 by the way). He said he is not wasting his time...blablabla....he doesn't want to leave this relationship. I feel so depressed because i like him but i have to control my feelings, so that i won't get hurt in the future.....
So what do u think? Should i move on?
2007-01-08 11:34:13 · 3 answers · asked by polinatora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Seriously. This guy doesnt know what he wants and he is bloody taking youfor granted. What will you feel if you decided to stay w him and 1 day later he just hook-up w his funny crush? Or hows ur feeling when he said that he doesnt want to give you any labels? he doesnt want to tell the wrold that u both are together! Do you get any security and love from him? I bet not!
He is so selfish and immature, move on. There are plenty of fishon the sea, in no time you will meet someone new, a hot hunk who will treat you much better than this ex-bf of yours..
2007-01-08 11:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's caught up in her. I wouldn't go out with a guy that's not interested in me as much as I am in him. It's not fair for you && you have to do what's best. If he doesn't see a future in the relationship, you should. It seems like you are putting more into the relationship, which is definitely not good. It's hard, but it'll be harder later.
2007-01-08 19:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by bbygotriceee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends...do you really love him??? because if you dont then you should just move on...not cuz i b leave that whole " dont date sum 1 unless you think you wanna marry em" but cuz if your not in love with him then you should just let that other skank have him...it may b difficult but she is prolly just jelous so just let her win and she will get bored and he will be urs again
2007-01-08 19:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋