This is an objective question as im interested. Would you say you were good looking, or honestly not a lot... are you happy with yourself? and is this good or bad for your day-to-day life? Personally im very happy with myself, i would say I am good looking, guys protect me and people seem drawn to me. When i walk into a bar or shop people turn to look... this is bad for me cause im shy, but I imagine others would really enjoy it. I can see why! Please keep an open mind, this isnt a place for boasting or bitching... just wondered what others think. Is physical attractiveness that important?
2007-01-08 11:25:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of people seem to think kindness is just as important. Im glad.
2007-01-08 11:36:57 · update #1
Dont be embarrased, I dont think theres anything wrong in saying youre good looking, its like saying youre tall... or short
2007-01-08 11:38:59 · update #2
Its important but not everything. I will tell that im a head-turner..people always said that im very pretty& cute. Im happy w my life now, i have this amazing loving bf, great friends,im doing well in my work and part time study.
Yet, what makes me have a lot of friends is because people said that im warm & kind to them. I do my best to treat people kindly; just they way i want them to treat me w kindness.
2007-01-08 11:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think im pretty good looking..ive never had a problem attracting the opposite sex. Im tall as hell so thats like a bonus times ten..more than that though, i think i have a very good personality. I may sound like an arrogant prick, but you asked the question. Im just being honest. I dont go around saying this. Anyway, to give an example, if i see a woman i find attractive, i have no problem going up to her, starting a conversation, asking for her number and walking away with it.
2007-01-08 11:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The older you get, the less important looks become. Personality becomes way more important.
As far as rating my own attractiveness..geez, I guess maybe a 7 out of 10 on a good hair day and with make up on. Without make up, I'd say a 5. That's compared to other people my age.
2007-01-08 11:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think i'm average, according to all my friends though I'm beautiful! But i don't think so! But I am comfortable with myself and i have no problems with the way i look! but i don't like the fact that i'm judged becasue of them. I am a very intelligent person but becasue i have blonde hair and a bigger chest i'm considered dumb! Looks should not be so important to me it's the personality that counts. But not in society now a days! It's all about the looks! and it sucks! I am a very opionated person and am not afraid to speak my mind so when someone comments on the way i look i tell them to back off and that there not that important! one day people will learn but until then. . . we must waite for people to learn!
2007-01-08 11:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not physical attractive but i make up for it with a great personality and sense of humour and intelligence and having a heart of gold. I am a bit of a character as well and i love talking to people. men like me for what i am. i think that its important to have good qualities like being kind and caring to attract people. i have attracted quite a few good looking men in my day and still can.
2007-01-08 11:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I don't know. I notice a lot of flaws about myself that people (friends, family, etc) tell me off for noticing because they're apparently minute or not there! I'm quite a shy and insecure person and, like you, hate it when people turn and look at me because I think they're seeing something negative. Having said that, I do get a lot of attention from guys but some girls aren't so nice towards me - according to my friends, that's because they're jealous. Any girls out there with that kind of experience with other girls?
2007-01-08 11:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Miller 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think, physical attractiveness helps A LOT. Kinda like asking, if money is important... It helps to have enough to be able to focus on other things. I am considered physically attractive, and I found that it's been very helpful in the dating world (duh); I'm very grateful that I have inherited the good looks from my mom (she was considered a very attractive woman back in the day, and I look a lot like her!)
2007-01-08 11:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been told by lots of people I am good looking but don't really believe them even though I probably should. I don't think I'm good looking and have low confidence because of what I think.
I am shy and my problems don't come from not being good looking (apparently I am) but from not believing I am good looking.
2007-01-08 11:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Gordon B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that I'm a 7 on a scale of 1-10 (1 being a total pooch, 10 being a supermodel, and 5 being totally neutral/average). That's good enough to attract attention, but not enough to keep it long-term if I didn't have other things (like brains, kindness, etc.) going on, too.
It works for me! I wouldn't welcome the prospect of somebody liking me solely for my looks. I want to be appreciated for who I am on the inside, too!
2007-01-08 11:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is and is not --- i think ive got better looking with age or it could just be i have found the "look" that suits me --- and yes i think i am attractive
if the personality is accompanied by an attractive face and body well that is a bonus
2007-01-08 11:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋