My daughter had a baby Jan 5; 06 when it was time for her to go back to work she went back let her boyfriend keep her and he wreck it so I did't want her to lost her job I co-sign for her a car bad deal. I told her I did't want him drive it , he did't at first. she did't want to go by my rule in my house and move out and loss her job a good one for not getting to work on time because she move in with him and his mother. She got up when she was home. she took alot of days off too. they got into it alot, he work for a min. they kept getting into it so she move back home, work at tem job but did't last so her car note pass due, i can't pay her and mine and she have a new baby on the way in march this yr. 07. She still see that no good nothing, she have to learn the hard way. I don't want him over my house alot but he was here one day when I got off work, I told her. hoply she will be getting her sec 8 soon. don't get me wrong I love my daughter she welcome here. I raise her she 21.
2007-01-08 11:14:38 · 5 answers · asked by msredbonel1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can only do so much for her. It's sad to see your own daughter make mistakes. Try to have her understand you care about her and want the best for her. If she wants to do things that you see as stupid, then she's old enough to do that. Hopefully, she will learn - but don't take it personally if she chooses a path that is not like you'd want. A person can only do so much for another. Meditate, pray and confide in friends and family for support. Try not to lash out at her and do what you have to do to maintain your own integrity in life.
2007-01-08 15:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 21, tell her to pack her bags and point her towards the door. All you are doing is enabling her to live the lazy lifestyle she has been living. She needs to be pushed out the door and made to face the cold cruel world on her own. Otherwise YOU will end up having to support not only her lazy butt but those of her children as well.
2007-01-08 11:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should get outa there! did she go to college? if shes still in college, then she has 2 atleast get herself an apartment. this gril is alittle young 2 b doing "that" isnt she? she should slow down a bit, andu should tell that guy 2 get out! show both of 'em who's boss!
2007-01-08 11:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by toast&jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my mom done alot and till this day she still does I'm 35 u just got to hang in there with time it get better .u do that stuff 4 her is because u love her much that's why my mom still helps me.
2007-01-08 11:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dana F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes 21 i think she is a big enough girl to live her own life
2007-01-08 11:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by The Sun Still Sleeps... 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋