we dated 2.5 years she said she loved me so much wanted to marry me we broke up and said i tore her heart out, i said not like that. she got new bf she cried cause i said good hope your happy.week later i said i still had feelings she started acting mean and saying how good he was and all the stuff he does for her.then week later she startd talking normally again to me but would always say he does this and that to get at me.then told me he is weak she yells at him over nothign he will say sorry and make it up to her.but she stil calls me all the time afte rnot talkn for 3mths when we broke up.she said she prob wit him for security he is weak and really sensitive.she turn her phoen of to hang with me no sex one day but i dont wanna be that other guy.she say she learn to love him but her heart wit me.she say he will nevr mess up even when she do wrong he will make it up her.why still call me and talk all th etime.she say things to get at me.isay if you hate me that much why still call.
2007-01-08 11:12:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is just trying to see how you'll react by calling you and saying she hates you
Take these wise words of advice from me-
Never take anything a girl says personally
She still has feelings for you, but she is doing that to test you and find out what kind of man you are
If you want her just keep it real, tease her and try to put things aside
2007-01-08 11:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by arabontheloose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, that doesn't sound logical at all. I don't even know if I fully believe you! But if that is true........then all I have to say is thi: RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND DON'T STOP RUNNING UNTIL YOU GET AWAY FROM HER NO GOOD ***, AND YOU'RE NOT ANYGOOD EITHER FOR SLEEPING WITH HER WHEN SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND, NO MATTER HOW LONG YOU WERE TOGETHER!!! IF YOU LOVE HER THEN WHY DID YOU TWO BREAK UP???? IF SHE'S USING SOMEONE FOR SECURITY AND YOU STILL WANT TO BE WITH HER, YOU NEED HELP AND SO DOES SHE. TAKE SOME ENGLISH CLASSES, TAKE 10-20 DOLLARS BUY A LADDER AND GET OVER YOURSELF, YOUR NOT THAT IMPORTANT. SORRY.
2007-01-08 11:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be two reason: One she is doing this to get back at you. If you tore out her heart, she is planning to tear yours out. She is pulling you into her world and planning to hurt you. The second reason is still have feeling for you but not enough to get back with you. You probably was her secure blanket, probably the person she depended on and she looks for you to give her a shoulder to lean on. If she really wanted to get back with you she would have left this guy a long time ago. Don't fall into her web, you would get hurt
2007-01-08 11:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by opheyward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has someone called a rebound. no girl can move on so quickly for a relationship 2.5 years. she may be getting revenge by trying to make your jealous, but she doesn't know what she's doing.
2007-01-08 11:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by LILY [ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has u as a side dish. If she really wanted to be with u, then she would leave him, but he gives her security, which is something most women want.
2007-01-08 11:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by LW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your ex get over her and get on with your new life. And tell her to stop calling and to get on with her new life.
2007-01-08 11:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by david o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dummkopf (it's German) of course she still likes you or she would go through all of that,
2007-01-08 11:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by deftlychillin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋