I really have a big crush on this boy, and he knows, but the problem is he already has a girlfriend and I dont wanna step in the way of them, but from what it looks like to me he dosent seem to be so interested in her and they dont talk at all, and I only think she goes with him b/c he's cute. I need 2 know if I should step up to the plate and claim what i believe should be mine or wait til they break up. If i do decide to claim what do I do and how do I handle myself?
2007-01-08 11:07:51 · 8 answers · asked by Tahvia M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave well alone until he becomes available
2007-01-08 11:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by flubberlubberlubber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see where ur coming from. sometimes its so frustrating to have to watch someone else taking something u want for granted. although it seems clear that the arn't going to work out there may be a good reason for this. breaking them up if he still ants to be with her could result in him bein angry at you and that will get you no where. wait til he moves on and try and build a friendship with him while you wait. it will be worth it if u'r the one there to support him through the break up. goodluck
2007-01-08 11:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by bluecherry41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for them to break up! Otherwise you may become known as a tramp, and the girl will totally hate you! If you have a good relationship with the guy, try talking to him about it and ask him if she really makes him happy.
2007-01-08 11:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so don't worrie about it, the worst thing you can do is denie it, or make it a big deal, i would not even worrie if i were you, just ack like its no big deal, if you do that, then so will everyone else, in the world today things quickly become old news, so hand tight, and it will become old news, you never know mabie he likes you to, and you'll both be glad he found out!
2007-01-08 11:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you use to getting what you want, if the answer is no, you will do fine if the answer is yes, you may wanna get use to losing every once in a while.
2007-01-08 11:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and have him break up with her first you don't want to be a w*h*o*r*e you know?
2007-01-08 11:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by HoTtIe_WiTh_a_BoDy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel.you must be in 6th grade or something
2007-01-08 11:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by meisha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone until he's "single".
2007-01-08 11:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by KW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋