i like this girl, but i know she likes another guy... what now?

Question

i even encourage her to go for this other dude. in a sense i jusr want herto be happy. like really, help me now and i will do it. i need to get it away! this thought of me is ruining my life and my holiday! when she touches me i melt! like when we watch a movie together we got this thing where we scratch eachother's arm and stuff. and sometims it feels like shes making a move. but i hope shes not. coz i know she likes this other guy. and then i just want to take her hand! what the hell?? am i just soooo deeply inlove? do i have this huge crush on her? i know her almost a year now. like to the date almost a year! i just dont know what to do... i want to tell her, but i know she likes the other guy. but she makes me feel really good when we are spending time together. and no shes not a slut or a skank. i dont know how to deal with this. i dont want to ruin my friendship coz of this. but then agian, we can have the perfect relationship... dammit!

Answer 1

Dude...there's no harm liking this girl...it's normal. Just remember that liking is different from loving. If you realize that you don't only like her to be a friend but love her as much then let her know. I f you will get "yes" for an answer then "congratulations"...but if "no"...at least you have tried and lost. From then on ...just be contented being friends with her...if you can't save your friendship because of what you have done (proposing your love to her) then be willing to accept the consequence of your action. So...the choice is yours to make or to take. Good luck!!!

Answer 2

you should be truethfull with her , let her know how you feel and if she dont feel the way you do then she dont feel sorry for your self. if she dont like you. or you can not tell her and miss out cause she might feel the same way about you. so really its a win loose thing hopefully you will get the win side.

Answer 3

tell her be a man