Well My Friend Alyssa is having a major problem well theres this guy that RLY LIKE HER! & he wants to have sex with Alyssa! Omg im sooo scared alyssa is 17 a year younger than me she WAY mature for a 17 yr old nows shes asking me , " What Should I Do" She told me that she feels the same way about this boy & that she could also do it shs thinking if she should or not now im lost cause i do Not know what to say to her help!
2007-01-08 10:57:46 · 8 answers · asked by :-* <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a one time thing, does she really want to lose something she can't ever get back at such a young age?
2007-01-08 11:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time for her to think about whether she really wants to do this is when she's no where near him, and not worked up about it. It doesn't matter if it's the first time you have sex or the hundreth-you can't think straight if you're in the situation! Also, she should ask herself "what's would happen if we wait?" If the answer is 'he'll leave me', then he's not the right one. If the answer is 'we'll eventually get to it', then that's a lot better.
2007-01-08 19:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by homesick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all it depends on how long they have been dating, how old the guy is and if they both love each other. If they have been dating for a good while then maybe shes ready. But here's another thing to tell her. Tell her to look up the song: S.E.X. BY: LYFE JENNINGS. Of course guys can sometimes say they love you and not mean it so. give her this advice.
2007-01-08 19:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. if he does love or really like her, he should respect her decision.
if your friend says no and he doesn't like that answer. he's using her for sex.
she should know if she wants it or not. girls do it without thinking. she can say that she's not ready but she ends up doing it cuz she feels pressured. if it happens, it happens.if she's ready she better have a better enough protection. cuz too many girls stress.. "am i pregnant?" the condom breaks, didnt use protection.. this and that. if they're not even in a relationship, they shouldn't be doing it at all. she's ready if she feels loved by her boyfriend. it's better off if she's not doing it because there's nothing to lose.
2007-01-08 19:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by LILY [ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not really 18 are you? Come on, no 18 year old I ever knew writes like that. You're 12 aren't you? You are, aren't you?
2007-01-08 19:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by judgedredd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask your friend to tell him that if he really loves her then he shouldn't keep asking and asking and ask yuor friend does she love him enough to have sex with him and i hope i have helped.
2007-01-08 19:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has to ask she is not ready --- it would be better to wait and if he really likes her he will respect that and wait till she is ready
2007-01-08 19:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's her decision eventually. she should think it out throughly and use protection if she decides on it.
2007-01-08 19:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u jealous?
2007-01-08 19:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋