Is there any thing wrong with me?

Question

I'm in 7th grade and all my friends have had atleast on boy friend and I never even had a decent conversation with one. I cant figure it out no one decent has asked me out only wierdos. Here are my qualities:

Strawberry blonde hair(every one loves it)
Big, deep, blue eyes
Short
skinny
popular
lots of friends
does well in school
great at drawing(do it all the time)
kinda loud :)
chatty
smells like coconut(every one says I do)
ok smile

Pease tell me if there is any thing wrong with me that I need to work on a bit. Not to change me completely but things I need to work on. I want to get up the corage to ask out my crush by the end of the simester please help.

Answer 1

NO NO AND NO there is abosloutly nothing wrong with you. You are only in 7th grade it is better to take it slow and have fun while you are still in Jr. High and High School. So what if your friends have had boyfriends. It DOES not make them any better than you. Enjoy being young and love yourself!

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with you...don't be in such a hurry to find a boyfriend. Just enjoy your teenage years...there will be plenty of time for boys when you get older. Finding a boyfriend when you are so young will only increase your chances of doing things like having sex, etc. WAIT. When the right boy comes along, you'll know. And I've always believed a girl should wait for the guy to ask her out. I think guys like that better. You don't want them to think you're easy or anything. And, I noticed most of your qualities were superficial...it doesn't matter how you look on the outside; it's what's on the inside that counts. ;-)

P.S. I didn't go on my first date until I was 17 years old & I don't regret it at all!

Answer 3

hi super girl dont change who you are just for a boy you sound great I can understand what you feel cause I an in a wheelchair so I know what it feels like when you see others around you with someone but it 2 things you need to remember 1 it might not last and 2 it does not mean they are happy being together the worst thing you can do is go out with someone out of fear of being alone just be yourself and when the time is right love will find you take care

Answer 4

well...relationships hardly EVER work out at that age, to be brutally honest. there's not one relationship i've heard about that has lasted from that age up until high school...people break up, and sometimes make up so much, that it's ridiculous. you said all of your friends HAD at least one boyfriend...which means that they broke up. wouldn't you rather be single and happy, rather than break up with a bunch of 'wrong' guys.

there's nothing wrong with you. you seem like a perfectly fine person. you just have to wait for the right guy. people change from 7th grade on....so those 'weirdos' that asked you out could definetely change. your crush might not even be that interested into going out with anyone just yet (guys hit puberty later). i'd say talk to him a bit more (if you aren't already friends) and see what happens from there.

why by the end of the semester though? is he moving or something?

Answer 5

No! Do not change anything about yourself! It's not you, it's them! When I was in the 7th grade, it was the same thing. Boys didnt really see alot in me, and I couldnt figure out why. I would read magazines, spend my allowence on makeup to try and perfect myself. Then, when I got a bit older, I blossomed into a young woman, and then the boys noticed me and not those girls that EVERYONE had all ready dated. They were old news. One day, this will happen to you. Unfortunatly it takes time, but when the right boy notices you, you will know that it was worth the wait.
Good Luck, and please....DONT change anything about yourself!

Answer 6

The only thing wrong with you is ,that you feel you have to have a boyfriend to matter in this world.
you are young ,so there is plenty of time for boyfriends .
Teenage boys are alkward at this time of their lives anyway .Girls mature faster than boys .They will be asking you out in grades 8 ,9 ,10, 11, and 12 .Right now they are shy .

Answer 7

It may or may not be your appearance. A list of your attributes will not give us a good idea about your social skills, fashion sense or your level of attractiveness. A great smile can be more empowering than any other quality or characteristic. A smile can send many messages, like being friendly, approachable, interested, and sociable. Strike up conversations. Watch how people respond to you. Do they smile back when you smile at them? Practice on people you encounter daily. It'll improve your personality really quickly.

Answer 8

I have strawberry blonde hair and blue eyes, and im shrt and skinny and popular.
No there is nothn wrong with you. I didnt have a bf or dedcent conversation till 8th grade. Maybe right now theres no one right for you. You should never ever think there is somehting wrong with you becacuse of a boy. Im sure youll find someone!

Answer 9

I agree with the above poster. Don't change yourself to make a guy like you, otherwise you'll be acting your way all throughout the relationship. I suggest having some initiative, START conversations rather than waiting for them. I remember not minding being talked to by girls in middle school.

Answer 10

chatty: Change this to - talk smart - don't just ramble on about nothing or topics that no one will find interesting.

Nothing is wrong with you for not having a boyfriend - you are young - don't sweat it - just focus on doing well in school - staying in shape - and when you are older - you will look at the other people that you are worrying about now and laugh at how pathetic they have become.