what do i do? i love him soooooo much?

Question

i know that i love this guy unconditionally but i know he doesnt feel the same way. we broke up because school was starting and he wanted to see if he could do better. i would do anything for him. i have already done some stuff that i think i might regret because he treated me so bad. his sister told me that he couldn't care less about me now or even when we wre going out. she also said he would always talk to this girl on the phone every night. he never really even called me when we were together but when i would seem mad at him, i could tell he couldn't stand it. we were together for 2 months and its been 6 months since we broke up and i am still crying over him. ya we still talk but its only when im with his sister and he wants some. he never calls. i dont know how to get over him because i love him so much. i know he treats me like crap but i just cant get over him!! its been 6 months!!! why am i still crying over him? i cry every night! what should i do?? please help me.

Answer 1

cuz ur like every other dumba*ss girl....u complain about guys like that but never go for the good ones....u deserve what u got for being a b*itch and picking a dumb guy like that.

Answer 2

Get involved in other things that will take your mind off him. From what you say he's not worth the tissues you use to wipe your tears and blow your nose. Believe me when I tell you you're worth better and you deserve better.

I'm no therapist but it sounds like you suffer from a lack of self-esteem. Why else would you put up with someone who never calls, who spends time on the phone with another girl while seeing you, will only talk to you when you're with his sister and he wants some?

His sister has told you he never cared about you when you were seeing him or now that you're not. How much clearer does it have to get before you realize that his interest in you is non-existent? As for his wanting some let him get it from the girl he spends so much time on the phone with.

Go meet other people and keep yourself busy with projects that don't allow you time to dwell on this loser. You have a lot to offer and you can't let other people see what a beautiful person you are if you're being someone's doormat. Don't be a doormat. You are somebody. Somebody that too good for the likes of that lowlife. Good luck to you

Answer 3

In another six months you will be FINE! A two month relationship is nothing to worry about. There are some people that spend years wasting time on a relationship and then after they get past it they do regret not ending it sooner. You have got to meet some other people and put him in your past very deep and far away. Go on. Join another club, and put some distance on those silly two months. You are only making it worse by letting your feelings linger. To hell with him and you need to wake up and realise that OH well, you made a boo boo! No biggie!

Answer 4

Oh hun please don't take this in the wrong way but...wake up! He's obviously not worth your time or anyone elses for that matter. Trust me when I say you can do so much better. The thing is you love him and theres really no cure for love except to go on with your life.

One thing you could try is to make a list of all his flaws. You know like how he never called you, how he was distant and cold, how he hurt you. It might help you realize that you weren't in love with HIM but with the IDEA of him.

Anothe thing that helps is surrounding yourself with friends and just having fun. Go out to dinner, flirt a little, laugh. Trust me eventually the heart ache will pass.

I'm sorry I can't offer more advice!

Answer 5

i'm not sure what to say but i'll try......... 1. try to stay away from him cuz then you'll realize how better off you are without him........ that includes not going over to his house even to visit his sis. 2. spend more time with friends and try getting a new boyfriend that knows how to treat a girl. and 3. try as hard as you can to forget about the jerk cuz if you know what he done is wrong.......... there shouldn't be anything stopping you from forgettin about him and moving on with you life cuz he doesn't own you and he sure as HEK don't have you on a leash leading you around like a dog.
HOPE THAT THIS HELPD YA!!! :)

Answer 6

I know how you feel gurl i went out with this boi and we broke up and i cried alot jsut like you.
You must really love this guy.
Well tell him how you feel and stuff.
Write him a letter.He say he dont got feelings for you etc. but maybe he do.

Answer 7

forget about him and remember that he is not the only person in the world. take him as an experience and move on. don't think about him, and remember that life is a destiny and his not your destiny look forward to your destiny. also remember this " don't like something that may be bad for you and don't hate something that may be good for you, god knows and you don't " look for something bad about him and hate it and everytime you think of him think of that part you hate about him. minimize your relationship with his sister and everytime he shows up don't look at him. and go out with someone else. it is the best way to go over someone is to go out with someone else.

Answer 8

OMG!!!!!!!!!! u r really upset about this arent u!!!!!!!

my advice (coming from sum1 who has been in that situation...) is to tell urself u can do better! the first step is to realize hes not worth it!!!!!!!! girl, he treats u like total crap!!!!!!

remember!!!!!

"guys arent worth your tears...
and the ones that are
wont make you cry..."

Answer 9

This reminds me of a part of a song:
"I know I deserve better, but I still want you"
-Savage Garden (California)

Answer 10

I understand. That is like hell. With me, we were together for a year when he started treating me like ****.

I understand, hunny.

It sounds hard but all I could do was let time heal me...