This girl that I have known for a long time has been flirting with my boyfriend! I want to find a way to get back at her,but I still kind of want to be friends with her.What should I do?! Should I tell my boyfriend not to talk to her,or take more drastic measures?
2007-01-08 10:34:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be a *****, share the wealth with your friend
penis for everyone!
2007-01-08 10:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dear Ariee,
You do not say if your bf has noticed your gf flirting with him.
1. Ask your boyfriend if he is interested in your friend. If he is, he will do what he wants with regard to her flirtation.
2. Ask your girlfriend if she realizes that she is flirting outrageously with your bf and ask her why?
3. DO NOT tell your bf not to talk to this girl. Remember that Adam and Eve were told NOT to eat of the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge when they lived in Eden. Adam wound up not only eating the fruit, but blaming it all on Eve that he did it. Your bf would not only talk to this girl, he might do more because you told him not to do it, and then say that she was flirting with him...that it was not his fault.
Dating relationships are full of minefields so be careful. It could be that your best bet is just ignoring her actions and keeping an eye on things. Good luck, hon, and keep in mind that there will be another along after this one. :)
2007-01-08 10:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend wouldn't flirt with your man.And you know that.
I had a friend for about 9 years and I thought she was my best-friend,will I was seeing this guy that I really did like he introduce me to his family took me out on my first date everything was good between us so I decide to introduce my girl to him cause I don't ever bring my home-girls around my guys just cant trust anyways after I introduce them to each other that night she took me home went back to his crib and F-u-c-k his a-s-s.How I found cause she call me feeling guilty.I told her f u and to go f with someone who cares.Ever since never been friends and got rid of him and found some else less than 3 days
what I'm saying don't trust and if you see her flirting than you need to put a stop to it.O he will deni it to.If he knows she's flirting than that's not the guy for you.
2007-01-08 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drastic measures
2007-01-08 10:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be the better man and try to ignore it and also ask him what he thinks about her flirting. Maybe he is doing her on the side. Well , no he isn't, or else she wouldn't be so open about flirting. The guilt factor would play in. Try to avoid situations where she is a part of your time with your honey. She should understand it. Also, arrange for somebody to say something in front of her about how they hate flirts.. or somehow get somebody to say it using your adlib talents.
2007-01-08 10:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by joygoround 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pull her aside and have a good heart to heart. Let her know how your feeling. If this is your Best friend you need to be able to communicate. How is your Boyfriend responding?
2007-01-08 10:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by lstgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you. What I did was flirt with her boyfriend. And when she asked me why i was fliring with him i told her that she was flirting with mine so i thought i could flirt wih hers. She decided she didnt like that and stopped flirting with my boyfriend!
2007-01-08 10:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is flirting back then you have a problem. if he's ur boyfriend, he shouldn't be flirting back. if he truely loves you, then she won't effect ur relationship at all. tell ur boyfriend about it first. trust him
2007-01-08 10:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by ayyyoooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not really your friend if she is flirting with your boyfriend...I think you need to stop your relationship with your friend...
You should tell your friend to stop..and if she say's no you need to beat her ***...LOL
2007-01-08 10:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by devilsadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if shes flirting with you re boy friend she isn't you re friend i say you kick her out of you re boyfriend and you re life
2007-01-08 10:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by babyelmo25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 sum
2007-01-08 10:36:11 · answer #11 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋