We're engaged and she doesn't want that to change, but they never really ended and he's changed since they broke up. She feels obligated to give him another chance even though she say's that she'll come back to me, but if she knows that why is she leaving in the first place.
2007-01-08 10:29:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's crazy she's a loser, she's with u and rather they ended it or not it's done when she got with u. I wouls simply tell her to go ahead and be with him because if she's torn then she still has feelings and you're not as important as u thought. How does she know that he changed? Have she been talking to him or spending time with him? She's trying to have her cake and eat it too.When she tries with him and kicks her to the curb she'll want to marry u then. Tell her to have a happy life because u will when u find Mrs. Right
2007-01-08 10:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, get your ring back and walk away, if she truly loved you and was planning to marry you, she would not be messing with another guy. Come on now, she feels obligated to him, give me a break, she just wants the best of both worlds and that is absolutely horrible. Dont bother, no matter how much you love her, she doesnt love you the same, if she did she would have told him straight up that she was engaged, and was not interested in him at all.
I mean does she take the ring off when she is out with him, dont put yourself through this agony, there are so many women out there looking for the true love and marriage, why waste your time on someone who cannot commit to you.
2007-01-08 10:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by rottie110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE!!! Do not torture or kid yourself here. If she's even entertaining the idea of another man in her life, then (no offense) things OBVIOUSLY are not working out between you guys. You deserve more respect than that.
It really sounds as though she wants to have her cake and eat it, too. If things go horribly with her ex, she wants the comfort of knowing you'll be there to fall back on. F**K THAT. Seriously, as hard as it is to do, you need to just walk away from this with whatever dignity you have left still intact.
2007-01-08 10:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by hortha71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow no offense but your girlfriend is not a very nice person...if you truly love someone you wouldnt do that...and for her to have the nerve to say she has to give him another chance but she'll come back to you is horrible...i think you should just end things..you'll find someone that truly appreciates and loves you..someone that is worth of your love!! Believe me...if you go along wtih this it will just end up hurting you even more....i wish you all the luck in the world...You'll find your true love one day...cause believe me its not her
2007-01-08 10:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Cori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to give back her engagement ring. She is scamming you. Do you really want to marry someone like this? Obligated to give a second chance too????? What the hell is that?
2007-01-08 10:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shocked you are even asking. She does not love you at all so why are you even engaged? Do not marry this self centered lady she will give you nothing but grief for the rest of your life. Even if she changes her mind and dumps him there is something seriously wrong with her for even asking you to do this. She has no feeling for you at all or she wouldnt even ask.
2007-01-08 10:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** that! you deserve better.
if she is not willing to let him go for you, why should you hang around and wait for her while she makes up her mind or whatever she thinks she is doing.
break it off, you'll find someone better.
and by the way.. if you gave her an engagement ring, and you don't end up getting married she is legally required to give it back to you as the law sees it as "a gift in contemplation of marriage" if you don't get married, she doesn't keep the ring.
just an FYI.
2007-01-08 10:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being played. She doesn't want to get marry but she does want the both of you especially if you let her continue to do what she is doing. You have to make up your mind if you want to be part of trio and that will mean learning to share her with another. The choice is yours. If you can't handle, then you need to leave her.
2007-01-08 10:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if she really loves u then she shouldnt want to date another guy. even if she does feel obligated. he lost his chance with her and now uve got her. if she still wants to date him after u tell her that then i would break off the engagement. how do u know she wont do that after your married?
2007-01-08 10:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by horse_luver_wyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Way. Don't put up with it. Tell her that she needs to make a decision, and if it's that hard of a decision for her to make than you guys should really slow that whole engagement process down!!
2007-01-08 10:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋