Okay my bf and I have been dating for two months. I am a tomboy and hangout with alot of guys. I am constantly puching and poking other guys. it irratates my bf especially when random guys come up to me and hit me or when the try to spank me -lol- im a tomboy so im usally a guys friend not thier gf. alot of my guy friends flirt with me and my bf is sooooo jelous. how do i make him see that i like him and dont want him to get so jelous? THIS is my first real relationship and im 16 i have done alot but like not with a guy im serious with. IDK what to do. Help! what would u do if u were him? if you were me? Keep in mind I have 2 girlfriends and the rest are guys so giving them up arnt an option
2007-01-08 10:28:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was the same and after a while my bf realized he didnt want to be with me unless i changed so i did i stopped pushing and joking around with other guys just to gain his respect because in the long run guys like girls who could just be a girl and more there for them instead of just another guy friend so become a lil more girly to get his respect and push aside you agressive side(you kno what i mean)
2007-01-08 10:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, the fact that you're so open about this shows just how confident you are about your sexual orientation of being straight. Secondly, I'm not quiet clear on what you're asking. You mean, like advice on what you should wear? I guess to get the full experience you should wax/shave your legs, armpits, etc. and get a cute dress. I'm thinking you might want to shave instead of waxing, though, because this way your hair will grow back waaayyy quicker and there will be way less pain. Why don't you just have your fiance help you out with that stuff?
2016-05-23 15:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Inge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're flirting, and it's making him feel insecure. If you really like him and want to keep him tell your friends to back off a little and cut out the flirtatious touching. And if you want to be spanked get your b/f to spank you. Sounds like you deserve it - and it could be fun.
2007-01-08 20:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well tell your friends to let up on the horse play around your bf, there's no reason that they can't "behave" around him.
Now the guys that are flirting with you are another subject. You should make them stop. Period.
They are straight-up disrespecting your boyfriend by flirting with you infront of him, and I wouldn't blame him if he gets upset.... especially if you let them do it.
2007-01-08 10:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your guy friends not to spank you. your bf is not going to stop being jelous even if you tell him that you're only interested in him so you also have to talk to your guy friends about the situation.
that's all i got. good luck
2007-01-08 10:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by naca101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are flirting with them. If some guy my gf was friends with came over and spanked her, I would probably deck him. Tell your friends to stop 'flirting' with you.
By the way, those guy friends of yours are flirting and they know it. They are in to you.
2007-01-08 10:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by tightlies 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋