i dont know what to do....im in 7 grade, ive got big boobs, and im normal size, not too skinny, but everyone says definitely not fat. 9th grade boys always hit on me and ask me out...actually CUTE ones, and so do guys in the 7, 8, and 1 or 2 even in 10th grade. everyday lately i struggle with finding what they see in me. i hate the way i look, but everyone says im gorgeous/beautiful/etc. i never have confidence in the way i look, and often i wish i was someone else. ive tried not eating for days, and ive even tried throwing up after i eat, i can never reach a happy-medium with my weight. i weight 120 and im 5'4" and 13 years old, i can't stand this body any more, even though other people can't get enough of it. what's wrong with me and why can't i just be happy with the skin im in?
2007-01-08 10:20:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
You sound like a brickhouse.
Find your confidence quick! You'll need it to keep saying no, but it's alright! You can do that. Trust me, if you don't keep saying no, you will have plenty of reason to hate yourself.
Give yourself time and you will grow into the beauty of your body but learn to appreciate yourself before sharing yourself. By doing so, it is not probable that you will be saying yes to any of those hormones (at that age, that is all boys are) they just see how hot your are and want to pleasure themselves without regard to the damage they may be doing to you.
You are in charge, keep it that way!
2007-01-08 13:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, and the same things and all, even though nobody would ever like me... All the eighth grade really doesn't like me, and the guys I like hate me.
I've done /everything/ you described, too.
I don't know, all I can say is hang on... I'm living each day one second at a time, honestly...
Good luck. :] That's all the advice I have, because I still can't find a solution. I think we're all different, and the only ones that are gonna make it are the strong ones.
Try to be one of them... :]
2007-01-08 10:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Haley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only thirteen years old, which is why you should keep on eating healthy, excercise enough to get you on a right weight, and wait till you are 20 something. I'm a 13 years old male, 5' 7" and weigh 155.I mean you are going to keep growing and that will change your appearance a lot. Seriously, dating now is that they just want to go to your pants. For skin problems, check with your dermatologist.
2007-01-08 10:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by canadiangeoguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get from your mattress, you MUST get from your mattress, the extra you keep there the extra you wanna sleep,even check out getting from your residence, pass below the solar within the outside subject, in case your university has a high-quality atmosphere take a seat below a few bushes below the solar. That will support you out obviously. the atmosphere will have to encourage you to get again into university. And probably you ought to transfer a predominant you are occupied with, if you do not see any profession possibility or are too tired of the predominant you are presently doing, you 'll lose motivation. You do not goto university due to the fact that YOU HAVE TO, you goto university for a rationale.
2016-09-03 18:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by degregorio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that sounds like a perfect weight to me and your big boobs weigh something you know.I say you need to find someone like a boyfriend.This may help you because they are gonna be telling you how pretty you are and sexy and you will actually listen because you like this person.
2007-01-08 10:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by SADIE R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋