if you would do anything for him and he knows it. then he takes advantage of you and uses you, then he cheats.
2007-01-08 10:15:55 · 26 answers · asked by MandaW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered your own question. He would cheat because he knows you will still love him unconditionally.
2007-01-08 10:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Scottee25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is, does the guy love the girl back unconditionally? Just because a girl loves a guy does not mean that he has to love her back as well. Most guys (esp. young ones) have a tendency to wander. Some do so by looking at other girls and others take it as far as cheating. There are many reasons for a guy cheating but when it comes down to it, the guy is not happy in the relationship that he is currently involved in. There are many theories out there about cheating but with each person it is different and each person has their own reason for cheating in a relationship.
2007-01-08 10:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some men, it's not about how wonderful their wives or girlfriends are. They could love you and respect you and know that you love them but they still cheat. Why? Many men want variety. They may love chocolate cake but don't want to eat it every single night. Occasionally they might want a piece of cheesecake (so to speak). I know it's wrong and unfair but some men are driven biologically to spread their love around. This is one reason. If he's not that type, the other reason could be that he simply doesn't love you as much as you love him. The fact he takes advantage of you and uses you should be a red flag that he falls in this category. Don't be a doormat. People treat you how you LET them treat you. Have some self esteem because you deserve better than that. There are those few princes out there who will love you, respect you and appreciate all that you do for them. Go and find one! Good luck.
2007-01-08 10:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by Gayle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By experience and talking to my male friends I've learned that guys dont have to have a reason to cheat they sometimes just do it beacause the opportunity is there even though they have the perfect woman at home that would die for him or whatever its like it's not enough.I dont know how old he is but he really needs to grow up and realize that a good man or woman comes very rarely and if with u isn't the right place for him to be then he needs to let you go straight up! He might love u but really he knows that the other females he mess with cant be a friend to him like u and cant really compare to u but it's something that she has to make him jeopardize all of that. After they cheat they want to come back and then realize all of this and it's too late. Find someone that's worth the time and energy, continue to be the good woman u are but sit back and observe and play the hand delt to u, don't allow yourself to settle for less than you're worth!
2007-01-08 10:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you unconditionally, then he is cheating just for sex. All studies show that men have a very difficult time having sex with just one woman even though he may be madly in love with you. Believe me - Ask any man that will tell you the TRUTH.
2007-01-08 10:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by movedtomountainside 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love him unconditionally, but you never said he loved you unconditionally. You've been played, and used. He doesn't respect women and enough and should be castrated. I'm sorry, I hate people who cheat. If you don't love them or don't want to be with them, then leave, and don't cheat.
2007-01-08 10:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe because he's a bastard and he's taking you for granted. I know of guys who are pure natural ana**. Maybe because he knows that you will always be there for him with open arms. And he realized that he can always turn to you and you will not reject him, since you already mentioned "do anything". He is very very confident that you will not leave him, knowing you love him too much to do so.
Therefore, my advice is, let him know that you're stronger than what he thinks you are. Show him you can live without him. And you will not tolerate anymore shi** from him.
2007-01-08 10:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by kampung_minyak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sex can sometimes just be sex
men are programed that way.....
it's like teaching your pet not to eat a jucy steak but if you left it in the room infront of his nose he will probably go for the meat and then feel bad when you find out
I'm not saying guys are dogs.. women can be just as bad.. what I'm getting at is it dosent mean that is dosent love you.
you should not cheat.. .and a good guy wont but if a women throws herself to you, it's hard to say no and it takes a real man to do that.
maybe is just to young.. give him another chance....
2007-01-08 10:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheats because that is what he is....a cheat. He will NOT change. He is immature and extremely selfish. There is NO excuse for his behavior and it will not improve. RUN, don't walk to the nearest exit. Do not see this young man again. He is a waste of your precious time and love. Find another who is worthy of you, hon. Good luck.
2007-01-08 10:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by Peanut 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are scum. Other's have a weak spirit. If some girl comes along and his spirit is weak, he won't resist the temptation and he gives in. Not all guys have weak spirit though! So chin up and move on. You deserve the best
2007-01-08 10:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by icemanind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋