my boyfriends a wrestler n i weighd a lot more than him so i went on a diet and lost about 15 pounds n now im just a lil over his weight rank but it still feels weird. is that bad?
2007-01-08 10:10:38 · 13 answers · asked by evilangle169 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
I don't think its bad. Your weight on the scale and your visual size difference is completely different. I've always been with guys smaller than me and its never been an issue. Plus once he is out of wrestling he won't be watching his weight....
2007-01-08 10:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sbebs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrestlers starve themselves to make weight, so whatever weight he's at now, I wouldn't consider his "natural" weight. He will gain it back at the when the season is over.
Plus height is a big factor. If you are five inches taller than him, but 5 pounds heavier, you'd actually be slimmer.
You shouldn't feel weird about it at all.
Personally I'd never see a guy who wore smaller jeans than me. But that's my issue.
Now if you are noticably 100 pounds or more than your boyfriend, I'm going to laugh at you in public.
2007-01-08 10:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 10:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.. If ur not fat and rather muscle then ur fine..It's really hard to say without seeing u or him in a pic or something..But if he's a tiny guy and ur big boned then thats not a fair question to ask.Depends on the height also..
But if u want to know if it's ok to weigh more than ur man in general w/o getting into details then it is for sure..Nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-08 10:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think it's bad...im not trying to put you down but you're stupid because you should never change yourself for anyone unless their willing to change for you, you're really in love, or your sure that you'll be with them for the rest of your life......if you weigh more than him...so what...he is with you for a reason(and that reason isn't your weight)...it should never matter how much you weigh in a relationship.Take my advice to heart because i was there before and believe me....trying to change for him may hurt you.......i lost so much weight once that i had to be hospitalized.i was on a "diet" just like you at first but in the in that "diet" may have ended up killing me....don't make the same mistakes as me.....please don't!
2007-01-08 10:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Karia J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...Your weight is very important to watch, but not for your boyfriend. You should watch what you eat and exercise for you, so that you feel better and have a better quality of life. If you boyfriend loves you, he loves you and your body. So a couple of extra pounds should not be a big deal.
2007-01-08 10:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by smm18951 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that bad. As long as you dont go too skinny. If you are too skinny then he may feel like he will break you. You want him to feel strong, but not clumsy. It wont matter how much you weigh if you really love each other.
2007-01-08 10:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by hullyoyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're fine. If your boy is in shape, then he is strong enough to be your boyfriend. A lot of men like thick women lol (no kidding).
2007-01-08 10:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you and him are comfortable with it, you shouldn't worry. How much you weigh has nothing to do with the relationship you've built with eachother. Hope my advice helps!
2007-01-08 10:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think its bad. I know what you mean though. My boyfriend is freakin tiny and really tall. I'm always worried about it too.
2007-01-08 10:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋