Well I don't want to go deep into details about myself...but I just feel so bad...and lonely. Two years ago I was proud with having a lot of friends and thinking that girls like me, even my father was alive and now he isn't. The only things I have at the moment are free time and money. I am sitting alone in my apartment...even I havent got a pet :))...I know you disagree but the problem seems to be in the other people...not in myself, I am great friend and always have the time for doing crazy things :), but I think the guys around me just try everything to avoid me in the most "tactical manner".
I am also posting several pictures of myself, so you can better determine whats my problem :)):
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Has anyone experienced situation like mine???
2007-01-08 10:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude--like cheer up!
Nobody likes to see frowns.
It's cliche--but don't be lonely--be alone. Go find yourself a hobby--get out and go to a nice restaurant all by yourself--go out shopping a lot--go to some laundromats and spill some soap all over a babes laundry basket. You might also have a depression problem--maybe see a doctor and find out?
2007-01-08 10:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually sounds like you are suffering from depression which would be entirely understandable if your father has passed recently.
I know you said that the problem is with other people, but that is part of being depressed, putting the problems onto other people.
I have suffered depression and had friends with depression and I can say now, its not fun being around a person with it. They will bring you down, especially if it is long term and they arent willing to seek help. When I was depressed I was convinced everyone had deserted me, none of my friends wanted to spend time with me, but it wasnt my fault, it was them doing me wrong. And I felt lonely, more alone than i had ever felt in my life.
As for doing "crazy things", being depressed doesnt stop you going out and doing fun stuff altogether, but often it can seem manic to other people, like you are forcing it and going over the top. That can also make people uncomfortable.
Maybe you arent suffering depression, but I would strongly recommend that you go and see a counsellor or psychologist to try and work out what is going on.
2007-01-08 10:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by BluesPoint_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i have not experienced this but then I'm only 13 so i have time. you know how u said ppl avoid u just think of what it maybe that u did to tick them off because if u did nothin then they r not real friend friends would help u though this part in your life. maybe u should go to a club and meet ppl or invite ur friends to go to the movie with u and if they say no then just keep asking them though out the week.(they can't have something to do every day of the week and anyways who does not like a good movie every now and then) this might work but then again I'm only 13 but it is always good to give it a try.
2007-01-08 10:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylee Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Bobi G. If you click on your pics, you can see that your not happy ( no smile at all) how can you say it's others and not you? Maybe this is a 'negative' time in your life that is being reflected outwards to your friends that you cant see, but they do. Have you tried asking for support from friends or family? I know it's hard to ask for help, you may feel like you will be seen as being "weak", but so much can change just by talking to friends or hey even a stranger.
2007-01-08 10:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The proper man will come alongside, you simply ought to be sufferer. He advised you crap like that to get you to stick with him, now not considering that it is real. Guys do dull matters like that always...he as a rule figured if he make you think dangerous approximately your self you would ultimately suppose that he is the one guy who might desire you and you then'd under no circumstances depart him...I'm completely happy you are too sensible for him! I'm definite you're beautiful, humorous and valued at the concentration of a few first-class man, you simply ought to be sufferer find him. You've acquired to ensure whilst you carry a different man into your lifestyles that he is now not best proper for you, however proper to your little woman as good...and I'm definite you'll be able to uncover anyone that is most likely excellent. Good success!
2016-09-03 18:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by degregorio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have know reason to be lonely..you are so cute,,, I'll be your friend so you won't be lonely any more..LOL
To be honest I don't think you have a problem...I think your probably going through a faze or you just feeling depressed but it could be more serious maybe you should talk to a professional...
2007-01-08 10:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by devilsadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think maybe your just feeling sad and you should go get a dog and maybe while your walking it youll find someone i think you should put a smile on your face and remember that tomorrow is another day with more possiblities and you should just be enjoying life you ll find someone
good luck
2007-01-08 10:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing but i live at home! And my dad died 3 years ago and i have no one to turn to ask ?'s and just ask personal ?'s but no i don't! well i'm sorry and hope we can get through with this!! if you want to talk and get to know me email me at mandymea_100.love@yahoo.com
love, MIranda
2007-01-08 10:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start smiling more for one.
Everyone gets lonely. Don't commit suicide over it. Its life.
2007-01-08 10:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look angry. Try getting a pet, they are so loyal and will always be there for you.
2007-01-08 10:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋