I see my friends who are girls and they have a lot of guy friends. They act in a certain way, like kind of "can you save me?" and something else too, I don't really know obviously. How do i do that? How do I not look dumb or annoying?
2007-01-08 09:48:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just be yourself. Don't act any different then you do. Eventually, you'll find the perfect guy.
2007-01-08 09:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like guys don't exist, for one thing. They only want what they think they can't have. Once they have you, they only want you when you're not 100% available.
And yes, be yourself. Not the self that says any darned thing at any darned time, because I've tried it, and it definitely doesn't work.
People want you to be yourself as long as they can kind of relate to you. Find a middle ground first, and once a connection is established, then you can go and introduce the things that make sense only after you've gained trust and acceptance.
Seriously, the world tells us two different things:
Be yourself.
Don't do any of the things we gossip about other people for having done.
Be unique.
Stay inside the lines; what are you, crazy? NObody else does (x,y,z).
But mostly, ignore them. And take care of yourself. Because if you don't look good, they figure you just don't value yourself. And then they won't either.
2007-01-08 09:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you described does look dumb. Don't be like that. Show them what you are good at. Guys love girls who are really good at something - sports, a musical instrument, etc. Once you come into your own guys will be interested. Just give it time.
2007-01-08 10:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhaah i sortta have the same problem, but i realized that i am sometimes socially dumb, and i am always being silly and hyper.....so what? why should they care? a guy should like you for who you are, never change yourself for a guy...not worth it, more fun to be youself too, so there is no need for "acting cool"
2007-01-08 09:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always had more guy friends than friends who are girls and I think that if when you are around your girlfriends guy friends talk to them and don't be shy with them and they will most likely talk back.............but if that doesn't work then *FLIRT*!!! because that can never hurt anything
2007-01-08 09:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by *blondie*!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Yourself (like everyone else said) and the right guy who will like you for who you are will come along pretty soon!
2007-01-08 09:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t act a certain way .Just be your self they will come around.
2007-01-08 09:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know about that one but some guys r super hot so just keep looking
2007-01-08 09:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by nsazon96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress in provocative clothes..
Show some skin..Give the guys a peek..
Short skirts & shorts..
Casual body contact, touch them, stand close to them..
Take their arm when walking with them and press it
against your breast...
2007-01-08 09:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i can tell u is to be yourself. if a guy can't accept you for you he don't need to be your friend.One thing i can say it's not good to be fake. So be yourself and see where that get you
2007-01-08 09:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by sheena b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋