can a guy get a girl without good looks?

Question

ok so i ain't exactly the best looking guy around you know, and i know that myself. what are some ways for me to impress girls and get them too like me more. i have a lot of girl friends. and they all like my personality but, you know how it is. any ideas?

few extra details. i have had a few girlfriends in the past, and some of them we're very beautiful, how it worked i don't know, most of them said they liked me because i was a gentlmen to them which i do try to do as much as possible but not just to get girls thats just the way i am. even then i still haven't found that one girl that i really love.

Answer 1

Dear Aaron,
You are already head and shoulders above other guys. You've asked a great question. You don't say how old you are, but, in general, maturity comes earlier for girls than boys. Therefore, if you are under eighteen, you have a bit of a wait for it to dawn on the ladies that there is MUCH MORE to a guy than his looks.

If you have good manners, are patient when things move slowly, are well groomed (clean hair and fingernails, good hair cut, clean clothes, a nice [but not overpowering] after shave or cologne, and use ProActive if your skin isn't clear), and have interesting conversation abilities, you are well on your way to being in a position to pick and choose the ladies you would like to date.

Keep in mind that sincereity counts for a LOT. Don't ever make the mistake of thinking that you can "use 'em, abuse 'em, and then lose 'em." We have radar for that after having a bit of experience in that area.

Also, if you are looking ahead for the long haul, get yourself a good education and after that a good job. If you are to be a man and want a man's responsibilities, you must show that you can take care of your future family. What you can do right now is pray for that special young lady who will come along and touch your heart as you touch hers. Pray that she is morally strong and not giving herself away to every guy she comes across. Pray that she will recognize you as the one for her. Pray for yourself for the same things as well.

Good luck in your search, Aaron, may the good God above grant you the patience to search and find in the best possible way.

Answer 2

Of course!!! Never think that just because you aren't the best looking guy in the town that you can't get a girl! There's always going to be someone out there who thinks you're attractive inside and out! And even if you never get a girl for looks, there are some girls out there who have realized that looks aren't everything and what really matters is inside where people can't see. So let that inside shine out!! You seem like a good guy, so don't be afraid, be yourself. When you find a girl who likes you for you, then everything will be alright. Just hang in there! Sometimes patience is a great thing :).
Best wishes to you!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

The best way to impress a girl if you don't have good looks is your personality...If a girl is only looking for a good looking guy you don't need to impress a girl like that any way...
For example don't get me wrong I like guys who are good looking but I care more about a guys personality..."inner beauty"...
I like a guy who is funny, smart, and respectful...
What you lack in looks you make up with your personality...

Answer 5

Yes you can.
It's all about the game that comes out of your mouth.
You may be physically unattractive but you can project a persona that others will be attracted to.

A prime example of someone who was physically unattractive who had lots of women. Biggie Smalls the rapper.

I suggest you read the following books:
The Game by Neil Strauss
The Art of Mackin & The Mack Within by Tariq Nasheed

Answer 6

I think the best thing you can do is just be your self. even if u think some girl is hott doesn't mean she is the best person i admit my guy isn't the hottest out there but i fell for him because of his great personality and hes always him self it doesn't matter in the end once you find someone that likes you for who you are it will just click.

Answer 7

honestly man, you gotta get yourself nice and clean cut. the best thing you can do is make sure you brush your teeth more than once a day, and floss. and liven up your wardrobe. if you need help then have a female go with, they'll be more than happy to go shopping. one last thing, confidence bro. that is the finishing touch. if you know you can pull a girl and get her attention, then she will be interested. walk into rooms like you own the place. keep that mentality. good luck

Answer 8

yeah definatley, im attracted to a guy who not everyone would say is really good looking. i guess its just the way he looks into my eyes, hes confident and doesnt care about what anyone thinks, ( which makes him more attractive) hes exrtemely funny ( trust me thats one thing that can win a girls heart sometimes ) just as long as you dont overdue it.... you got to make up for your looks with your personality. if your good at something like a sport then show it off... not to much though. all i can say is personality, & to just look into their eyes and smile more often, it really makes us become more attracted to certain guys... whether their good looking or not :]

Answer 9

Yes you can. All you have to do is be friends first and then over time an attraction will begin. I'm currently dating someone who is not traditionally attractive but he's attractive to me since we knew each other for 9 months and I fell in love with his personality. good luck and be strong!

Answer 10

you don't have to be THE BEST LOOKING guy around for girls to notice you. heck, i dont even find the BEST LOOKING guys (to other girls)around all that good looking because they are missing some sort of charm, and individuality.
looks don't matter as much to girls as to guys (because men are more "visual"), so a good sense of humor and kindness should do it.
so the answer is yes.