The one that you love?
Or the one that loves you?
2007-01-08 09:42:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's a hard one here but the answer is to follow your heart
i've been in this position for years trying to date everyone who liked me to get over the one i loved
they never worked out because my heart wasnt in it
relationships are meant to be two way thing. if your heart isn't in it then chances are it wont work out and chances are you'll end up hurting the other person involved
so its better for both of you
as for the one you love at the moment, if he doesnt feel the same don't give up hope. he may be in the same position as you and doesnt want to hurt you by rushing into a relationship he doesn't feel comfortable
but dont give in, there's someone out there for everyone and you'll find them one day!!
xxxx
2007-01-08 11:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by lozzylorlor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you are an artist or a stalker or looking to be the subject of a bad country song I would go with the tragic unrequited love. If you live on a desert island with just the
three of you and an internet connection or you are in jail and the other two are your cellmates I would suggest the one who loves you (at least for a while). If none of these scenarios seem to fit, I would hypothesize that if you just went out and found your way in the world and worried less about love and more about life you would find both.
2007-01-08 10:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by iggy_68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my life. I think it really depends on who the people are.. if you care about the one who loves you then you should give them a chance. but if you are madly in love with someone else.. it isn't fair to them. if the one you loves feels the same about you, clearly he is the choice. but if he doesn't feel the same, and he has told you this.. then choose the one who loves you. you can't just choose without considering the circumstances and taking a few other steps first. : )
2007-01-08 09:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by jerika*14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Unless the one that you love chooses to love you back, you are at square one anyway. If you choose the one that loves you, but you can't return that love, it is a disaster waiting to happen.
2007-01-08 10:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nutzzzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I've chosen the one that I love, doesn't stop me thinking of the one(s) that love me though! Seriously, the one that YOU love will be the only sensible choice, tho' it's tempting NEVER settle, it may be safe but in the long run it won't work, you'll always be looking for something.....
2007-01-08 09:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Flossie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the one that I love loves me then it would have to be that one
2007-01-08 09:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one that loves you... you obviosuly must have loved him at some point and now that mr 2 has come into the scene and he's not showing you the same love, you may miss out on a good thing on the long run.
2007-01-08 09:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself
2007-01-08 09:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one that I love, who should love me back!
2007-01-08 09:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Danru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guess that depends...does the one that you love love you back?? Do you love the one that loves you, or think you ever will? Maybe you shouldnt choose right now.
2007-01-08 09:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋