i just started going out with this guy and when im around him or thinking of him i really like him but ehn im not around him or w/e i think of him as a friend i dont know what it is bcuz it changes a little bit. but idk help. if u can
2007-01-08 09:40:57 · 21 answers · asked by yep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw he asked me out
2007-01-08 09:52:46 · update #1
Maybe you really do like this guy but, you forget how amazing he is until you are around him. The base of any great relationship is an even greater friendship...so I would just go with it and see where your heart takes you :)
2007-01-08 09:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tara G 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Quite normal.
You are obviously very physically attracted to him and what you are experiencing is what's often termed 'chemistry'. Chemistry is different from emotion in that it's really intense when the person is near but seems to drop off a bit when the person isn't near.
Just because you are physically attracted to him doesn't mean you aren't emotionally attracted to him too (or even in love). Relax, enjoy the experience and see where your relationship goes.
2007-01-08 09:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but u really aren't into this guy. Kissing & being physical is a fun feeling but its not a good reason to be w/someone. U R leading him on. Cut him loose and find someone u like all of the time. Good Luck
2007-01-08 09:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by looking4answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont feel the same way when u r around him as u feel when ur away from him then u shouldnt be together!! Maybe ya'll r just better as friends and maybe he feels the same way!! But if he cares at all he wil understand!! Just tell him!!! save u both some drama and lots of pain!!!!
2007-01-08 09:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question isn't very clear! Sounds like you really are into him when you're together, but not into him when you're apart. So, maybe you just need some time to get to know each other. Or, it may be, that you're trying to feel something that just isn't there. Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but as I said, your question wasn't very clear.
2007-01-08 09:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a co*k...and you are under it's spell! Don't be surprised! Just go along with it! Get on the phone and call him up for a quickie! Happy trails...
2007-01-08 09:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean if u try harder to get in to the relationship then u might start to think of him as a lover and not a friend when u r not around him. that is what i think
2007-01-08 09:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kaylee Sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I been through that, its probably cuz you have mixed emotions about him, or you are horney when you go around him. I'm not gonna lie, ive been through that a few times
2007-01-08 09:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by MeganRegan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird... Me too.. in a way I think its because the other person might not be showing that much interest in you so that kind of puts him in a friendship level.
2007-01-08 09:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you just don't have a spark with him. He's not for you, maybe give it another week if you have to prove it to yourself. But don't lead the poor guy on, tell him you just don't think it's going to work out and move on.
Good luck.
2007-01-08 09:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋