how would you feel?

Question

if you were still in love with an ex and the girl he is with now and hasnt been that long is now telling you they are getting married

Answer 1

She is probably just saying that to be mean to you. Maybe next time you see her, ask if you can come to the wedding!

Answer 2

Well the very first thing I would advise you to do is revisit all of the reasons that led to the breakup. While you may still love him and the thought of him marrying someone else is quite disturbing to you---do you really feel that you want to reconnect?

At some point in time you will have to let go of him mentally if you determine that there is no chance of reconciliation. A second piece of advise would be to remove yourself from the situation entirely. You should not be conversating with the girlfriend of your exboyfriend especially if you still have feelings for him this will only cause both more heartache and the feeling that you always have to react to the changes in his life with his new mate.

You have a great future ahead of you. Don't spend time standing on the outside looking in. And if you allowed yourself to be very honest---you would probably admit that you had a good reason for moving on in the first place.

Answer 3

Though it may hurt, the reality is you are now free to find the love of your life. Give yourself time to feel the emotion of it and then be happy for them and move on. If he could fall so quickly for another he wasn't meant for you and thank the Lord you can enjoy the hunt for someone else. START looking!

Answer 4

its hard but the only thing that you can do is just show him that your the bigger person by telling him congrats. its gonna hurt and suck to see your ex with another person but to show him that your a good perosn and that you still love him the best way is to at least be happy that he's happy

Answer 5

I think it would be time to stop being in love with an ex.

Answer 6

I would feel really really sad. Cheer up. You need to get him out of your system. Try gettin a big pic of him and throw darts at it. Guys like that don't need oyur love.

Hmmmmm....maybe he knew her before...while ya'll were still together. Did it ever occur to you that he could have been cheating on you?

Answer 7

I'd probably cry my eyes out..I think I'd tell him I still have feelings for him...But then again if I know the girl and she's great and all,and she makes him happy,I'd back off coz I had my chance.
Everything happens according to a certain plan,and for a certain reason,w/e God has for me I know it would be better.
Good luck sweetie! :)

Answer 8

to be honest with you I wouldn't care less I get over anybody easily so yeah I would actually congratulate him because he found someone he has connection with and you find yourself a man that is gonna love you and that is not gonna make you feel bad later on you deserve better than that and believe me you can find somebody that is gonna love you and cherish you and respect you for the rest of your life and so, forget about that dude. He didn't deserve a diva like you so, throw his thougths where they belong..TRASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

I'd say it was time to move on. Apparently it wasn't right between the two of you. Which is why he's marrying someone else.

Answer 10

It would kinda suck cause I was still in love with her. It would however be understandable because she turned lebanese and is now dating a girl. That's really cool. I would really just be frustrated if they wouldn't let me join.

Answer 11

That can be a drag, I would probably be a little bent too! Everything happens for a reason, Someone better out there for you.