when i was walking out to my car i saw my bf just sitting in his car.i went over to see what was wrong.he had a very intense look on his face and was on his cell.as soon as i opened my mouth to say hi he shot me a angry look and waved his hands at me to keep quiet.after a few mins of him listening + saying ok,yep,no in a very monotone voice to the person on the phone he hung up.without saying a word to me he left his car and walked to his appt.i kep asking who was that and he just ignored me.when we got to his door he would not let me in and got very angry with me and said leave me alone i don't want to talk about it.later i called him + he seemed calmed down but was vague about what happened.it seems "sue" told him to come get his stuff(keys,clothes)that she still had but not to come when she was home,she would leave his stuff in a bag on the steps.why did my bf react to me in a argry way?why after 10 mons does she still have his stuff?as far as i know he never told her he was datting me,maybe she found out and got pissed thinking they would get back together.i worry about this becuase my bf left his last wife for this old gf maybe shes at her old tricks again.what do you guys think?
2007-01-08 09:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by kathygrams0987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's bullshit! He is a liar.
2007-01-08 09:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either trust him, or you don't! Sounds like it was difficult for him to accept the finality of the situation with his "former" girlfriend, and his reaction was completely normal! If you're really worried, sit down and talk to him about it, but give him a few days to process what happened. Good luck!
2007-01-08 17:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like he still has feelings for her. Why else would he get mad? If he didn't care he would've told her to mail it instead just so he doesnt have to see her..well maybe that's overreacting but you get my point. I don't think he should've been mean to you either. That has nothing to do with you. Oh and men that leave one woman for another are always on that cycle so if I was you I would watch out and if you don't think you can trust him, then it's for a reason!!
2007-01-08 17:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Surrender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a Guy, but hay ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.... I know this because every man i have ever met if they cheat in the past then they will cheat on you also....
get rid of him, and find someone you can trust
2007-01-08 17:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater?
I would flip out of I found out my bf talked to his ex.
That's why she's an ex cuz she wasnt good enough.
So, there is no excuse as to why they should remain "friends"
I know my bf would flip out if he new I talked to an ex, and I would totally understand him.
2007-01-08 17:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Hotcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before he hurts you. You can do better and I think you know what's up. You're smart, you deserve better than that. No relationship is going to work without strong, honest and open communication. Don't be another X on his wall!
2007-01-08 17:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question..what do i think?
Answer....Get the he!! out now.
2007-01-08 17:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by LIL Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KNOW THAT "WE'RE JUST FRINDS CRAP" IS BULL. SO KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN, BOOBS AND BOOTY TOGETHER AND DO WHATEVER SHE DOES BETTER. (AND I MEAN EVERYTHING)
AND AFTER AWHILE IF HE DOESN'T BLOCK HER OUT AFTER YOU CLEANED UP THEN TELL HIM "GO TO HELL"
2007-01-08 17:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by pugbunny_ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bark up with him. he might be cheating on you
2007-01-08 17:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by elmophoobear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋