My girlfreind of 2 months recently broke up with me. I still really like her and I realized that I did some stuff to like get her mad and like I pleaded with her I would change but she still said that she wants to be just friends. I miss her so much and cant get over her. i still hope she still has some feelings for me and that like in time she realizes how much I care about her. So i dont know how to approcach the situation. Should I stay away from her for awhile. Or should I still hang out with her. Please help me, Im goin crazy.
2007-01-08 09:35:35 · 8 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget it--move on. Don't be her friend--unless you are a glutton for punishment or both of you are mature enough to handle a friendship.
If you are "going crazy" you probably are not mature enough to handle the friendship.
2007-01-08 09:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude..you're making the same mistake that most guys make in relationships. do NOT beg for her approval for anything. Don't tell her you can change etc because you just come across as being extremely needy. And let me tell ya there is nothing that sends girls running faster than that. The best advice I can give you is to let her go (at least for now) and don't look back for a few months. Get yourself together man! When a girl sees that you absolutely need her and you can't live with yourself without her, she feels like theres an annoying child tugging at her, seriously just be yourself, tell her that you're glad you can still be friends and move on, if anything she'll come back to you in a few months and you can think about being with her again then
2007-01-08 17:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not really sure how to answer your question because it would depend on what you did. but you i would talk to her about how she feels. you can also tell her that your sorry. it may not change things since you had your chance and screwed it up. but your human you make mistakes we all do. atleast talk to her and see how she feels about a friendship with you. if not then stay away and then maybe one day things will change. make sure that you are open and honest with her. hope that this helps.
2007-01-08 20:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get over it! You had your chance and screwed it up.....nothing more to say. Move on and find someone that you can start new with instead of running and kissing her butt for as long as the relationship last. Never go back!!!
2007-01-08 17:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by TootsieGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately send her flowers with a really really sweet card about how you feel. apoligize... she needs to know you know whats you did. tell her how much you care, and how good you can be to her. be sincere. im sure she still cares, girls just want someone who is good to them, and will make them so happy. just make it your goal to make her happy. let her know you arent in it for just you, you are in it for her just as much. and you want to be the guy who puts that special smile on her face.
2007-01-08 17:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her, do some guy stuff, out of sight out of mind, no worries.
2007-01-08 17:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you did. You can say i can change but less talk and more change. If it is a bad habit try and brake it .
2007-01-08 17:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldn't of acted a fool when u had her
Ur fault Ur loss
2007-01-08 17:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by devries58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋