Hey there cuetee,
all I can truthfuly say is, I had my first baby at 30, was reasonably fit at the time, more or less the same height and weight as you.....
Basically, I ignored most books (they cause anxiety if you or bubbie aren't doing as it says)
Every pregnancy is different,,,,, all I would like to say is,, all pregnant ladies are absolutely fabulous.....
At your age, I doubt that I would have believed that but then again, I never gave it any thought,,,, I wasn't pregnant and was perhaps,, a little proud of being sporty and active in other ways.... It never occured to think about anything else....
Still,,, on finding myself, 'in that condition' apart from being able to discount a new face cream I had just started using, for being the reason my skin and my whole well being in general, taking a turn for the better,, I found, being pregnant was no big deal..... Sooo lucky, I know,
I know quite a few other ladies that have had hard times,,, be it with weight or loss of freedom??,,, whatever....
The whole time I saw, (it becomes a theme, as I am sure you will have noticed) ALL the pregnant ladies I saw/met were experiencing different things,,, some similar to myself, some I never had to deal with.
What I am trying to say here is,,, if it feels okay for you (and consequently, babe...) then as long as you are not stressing out about it,,, you will both be just fine, I'm sure.
Do your work outs for as long as you both feel comfortable, you or baby will soon protest, if it isn't the thing to do. Any pain,,,I would have to ask myself if it were wise,,,?? Not advisable to go over the pain factor,, maybe YOU can but sweetums may be of another opinion...?
Honestly,,, I had my baby's starting 14 yrs ago, best thing I ever did, regardless of the nervousness and ????'s
I developed bosoms like I never had in my whole life, huge they were!! ,,, till my first was born,,, then everything went back to normal. Sure it takes a wee bit to get back into your old gear but , here is the catch,,, you probably won't even want to get back into that mode anymore !?
Breastfeeding was the best weight contoller ,, many women say the same,, I think, all in all, you don't need to think terribly hard about any fitness regime ( you were already slim) and after the first few "easy days" where everybody pitches in,,, just your normal everyday doings will get/keep things in place as you would
wish.
Please don't be too harsh on yourself, having a baby is quite the most enormous thing a body can experience,,, apart from major illnesses and that is not the case here....
After you have your little sweetie,, there are so many opportunities to easily maintain your ideals,,, Baby+Pram+walks in the localities,,,= fitness without big stress,..
Ohhh!! a million things I could say here, but I am trying very hard not to preach, or ramble on... The very best thing I can think of is,,, relax,,.
Now find I am Mum to two lovely girlies,, 14 & 11 yrs,,, lost any extra little bit of endearing weight I may have had before,,,, babes will take as much as you can give,so don't worry too much about the weight side of it, (shall just pop this in for my own pleasure,,, I love 'em to pieces, even when they drive me mad!!!!
Sweetie, save all your energy for later,, let everyone else do all the talking,worrying, wondering,they love to do it it and it will give you the chance to gather your energy,, you will need it but I have no doubt, you have that anyway,,,,!!!!:D
Again,,, relax,,, you will be fine.
You will be marvellous!! come the day!!!! Bless.
2007-01-08 10:41:48
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answered by Anonymous
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