Here's the situation. I love a girl. We dated. Things got serious, she got scared about something. And I know it was something both of us had a part in. But she said she wasn't ready for a relationship that serious, so...fine. I have given her space, let her call me, whatever. But I met someone in the midst of all of this unfolding that I am sort of interested in. So, I still talk to girl 1 pretty much every day, but I am starting to talk to girl 2 a lot more regularly. They both know the situation, that I am talking to the other (and it's only talk w/ both of them right now). I want girl 1, but I am not opposed to letting things develop w/ girl 2 if that's how it happens. Am I wrong to "date" girl 2 when, really, my intentions going into it are just to refine my dating skills assuming that I will have another chance at girl 1 soon? Like I said, if something does develop, too bad for girl 1. She had her chance. But I'm not making any moves any time soon in that direction.
2007-01-08 09:04:31 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not wrong. Even if they didn't know the situation it would not be wrong (assuming that you wouldn't tell either one that she is the only one).
2007-01-08 09:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date girl 2 and continue talking to girl 1. See what unfolds with the 2 girls and then choose which one you think is best for you. Sounds like you and girl 1 are not together anymore. You shouldn't limit your choices.
2007-01-08 17:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by tarzan428 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like girl 2, then date her. Don't date her while you bide your time for girl 1. That's wrong. In fact, you would be smarter to just let things develop with girl 2 and see where they go. Nothing is going to happen with girl 1. Trust me.
2007-01-08 17:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋