Ok so if you read my question before me and my best guy-friend are going out. We were invited to this party tomorrow and today i satarted my period. I dont want to keep going to the bathroom all the time! He may think its weird and i dont want him knowing, i mean weve been bff but today was my first date!!?? Should i cancel, or tell him or not do anything? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-08 08:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by MileyCyrusFan♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I kbow i ask plenty of questions about guys and stuff, but im a 13 year old teen!
2007-01-08 09:00:04 · update #1
I would hope that any trips to the bathroom would be normal. I seriously think that if you go frequently, enough for someone to think there maybe something wrong with you, that maybe you should have yourself checked out. If it isn't really that much more often, I really hope that this guy is mature enough to understand nature and general health. I don't think you should really do anything...go out, have fun and don't worry about it. If it makes you feel better, drink water and tell him your frequent trips are due to that.
2007-01-08 09:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by msdeville96 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this relationship is going to last for any amount of time, he is going to have to get used to this every month.
Most guys understand and would just rather not know anything about it. He may be disappointed that nothing will go on for a few days to a week, but that makes the first time after so much better! Anticipation is a nice aphrodisiac :)
2007-01-08 17:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, guys don't freak out about periods. You shouldn't either. It's something that will happen to you every month for the rest of your peak sexual years, and guys know that. Just find a way to tell him (make a joke about Aunt Flo or something lame), have a little laugh about it, then get on with it. He'll understand. And by doing so you'll help yourself get over the modesty of something 100% natural.
2007-01-08 17:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys know that women get their periods - trust me. My advise to you would be this: wear a tampon (which can be in up to 8 hours if needed) i also highly recommend wearing a panty liner in case you start leaking (in which case I would advise brining an extra tampon and panyt liner).
Don't worry too much about him knowing that you have your period if he dosen'y know then he will soon find out.
If he asks about why you are going to the bathroom so often tell him "it's girl stuff".
Don't fret you'll be fine!! Good luck honey.
2007-01-08 17:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yah umm i'm thirteen too but yah anyway, all you have to do is ummm well i use pads and then your ready to go, bring like a couple extra and put them in your purse or whatever and just bring your purse with you when you go to the bathroom. you only need to change it when it is like really dirty or feels wet too you. and i wouldn't tell him about it because this kind of stuff tends to gross guys out. you shouldn't be going to the bathroom all the time either, sure it takes time to get used to the pad and everything but you still shouldn't be going to the bathroom all the time, its not neccessary, just go to the bathroom when you actually have to go. but if you are actually going to the bathroom alot than just tell him that you have drank like a lot lot lot of water today or something.
2007-01-08 17:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't let that get in the way of going out w/ a probably great guy. Don't panic or worry or feel like you have to go to the bathroom all of the time. It's o.k to go sometimes but not all of the time. I know it an feel uncomfertable walking around feeling like you have wet your pants, but trust me, everything will be fine! Hopw you have a great date!!!
P.S I love Miley too!!!!!
P.S.S E-mail me at jmlover013@yahoo.com
2007-01-08 17:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.
If he is an experienced man, he will know or will be cool if you tell him upfront (will also give him the heads-up that the 'downstairs' is closed for the evening). First time out makes it difficult to judge, but if it was me, I wouldn't trip.
Good luck.
2007-01-08 17:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Shane O'Rion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go.... there is no reason you should keep going to the bathroom
Go enjoy yourself and if it comes up then tell him.
2007-01-08 17:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by ~Crystal~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't cancel just cause of my period!
2007-01-08 17:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by star-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him!!
he'll understand!!
2007-01-08 17:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by * Miss Thang * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋