Men and Women in Yahoo land, tell me were do you draw the line for your behaviour and for your monogamas partner?
Example:
Me: Intercourse is cheating but Oral sex is not.
Partner: If he/she went to the strippers and got a lap dance.
2007-01-08 08:56:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
An EXAMPLE is not what I think but how you should answer the questions. Wow I had no idea some many people didn't know how to follow instructions.
2007-01-08 09:30:37 · update #1
Anything you can't tell your mate without them getting mad is considered cheating.
Case closed
2007-01-08 08:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Guess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Your lenient!
people will call cheating by different terms but imo if it makes your partner uncomfortable then that is inconsiderate. Im okay with light flirting,heavy flirting,touching,ect when were at a strip joint together or if were having a 3some. I like women,we do it as a couple,not seperatley. There is no "I" in love and its all about consideration even if some thing seem a little silly to the other. If you want more then an open relationship if for you,not a monogomous one.
2007-01-08 17:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is any of the below:
1. Kissing someone other than gf/bf
2. Any form of intercourse with someone other than gf/bf
3. Romantic involvement (whether it be an actual relationship, or via phone, e-mail, etc.) with someone other than gf/bf
4. The whole lap dance thing I guess could constitute as cheating, but I wouldn't outright say it was - I'd have other words to back it up too.
2007-01-08 17:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All of that is cheating. Kissing, sex, oral sex, lap dances, getting too close and personal with someone, etc.
2007-01-08 17:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont think oral sex is cheating ?? And that's coming from a women ?? So if your bf/husband got his d*ck sucked daily you'd be ok with it ? Really ? Your partner seems to have more sense than you and might actually be happy now that he knows he can freely get his d*ck sucked by who ever he wants.
2007-01-08 17:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kiss on the lips and anything beyond that, for the both of us really.
If he went to a strip club by some reason, I wouldn't be happy, but as long as it's just looking, not touching I'd be okay with it.
2007-01-08 17:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my girlfriend kissed another guy, or if I did the same, it is cheating. Your breaking the trust. Oral is cheating. Lappers, not cheating since it is entertainment and there is usually no kissing or actual body to body contact, but if there is, it is cheating.
2007-01-08 16:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything sexual in nature is cheating. Spending time with someone having intentions other than just friends is also cheating.
2007-01-08 16:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You - oral sex is cheating
Him - lap dance at strip club is not cheating whether you get it or he does.
2007-01-08 17:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Add Man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
since your relationship is based on your level of honesty,it would be cheating to create or involve yourself in any activity that you feel in your heart to be untrue.but this is only up to you, to figure out .deep down inside we all have that feeling ,that lets us know when we are about to cross that line.the only thing that seperates it from flirting to cheating ,is if you choose to act on the chance.good luck to you.
2007-01-08 17:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by vance w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋