i like this guy nd he likes me but wont ask me out im best friends with one of his friends nd i talk to him like all the time on the phone nd everything then today everyone was like you like cu nd i was like no i like his friend ch nd everything is sooo confusing bc now i dont know if i have feelings for cu bc i actually do or if its just bc people are saying i do ahhhh im sooo confuzzled
2007-01-08 08:52:09 · 16 answers · asked by lil shortie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So stop talking to his firends and talk to him hunny sit him down and ask him how he feels and take it from there
2007-01-08 08:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how old you are, boys and relationships shouldn't be on your mind right now. Pay attention to your school work and your other activities that you enjoy and when the time comes you won't have any confusion on whom you like, you'll just know so don't rush it. I didn't get much love from my family so when I was young I went looking for it in all the wrong places not knowing that the boys really didn't give a hoot about me or my feelings. Take your time when your prince comes along you'll know it. And you don't need to be dating 5-10,etc guys to know who is right for you. Sit back and watch your friends, study what goes right and wrong. I know its hard when you get all these feelings inside. But it is truly better to wait.
2007-01-08 16:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by LJD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, calm down. Learn how to spell "and"... or learn how to spell in general, then maybe we can talk. From what I can decipher, you like a guy, but everyone thinks you like his friend? So after you heard people saying that you don't know which one you like now?
Obviously, if this is such a tough question, you're not old enough mentally to handle dating. Don't worry about it. Focus on your spelling and grammar in general.
2007-01-08 16:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don`t know how to help you. With me, my man just picked me up and took me out. He is and has always been in charge of me. I guess that`s just what being a man is all about. He is 12 years older than me and he took me to better places than a boy would take me. Also I wasn`t likely to run into any of my age group people where he took me who would be apt to criticize me or say awful things about me. In short I had myself a man when I was 16--that is ONE man instead of a whole bunch of boys. He decided where we we going when we went out, when I was old enough to make love with him, marry him, and have our daughter. So needless to say I`ve only been with one man and not been screwed over by a bunch of boys. In my opinion it may do you well to get a man rather than a boy.
2007-01-08 17:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlee C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to the one you like and likes you, just get a feel for things and don't rush it. If it comes down to you both keeping friends or dating for a while, i'd go with the friends, it's going to mean a lot more in the end and he'll respect you more for that.
2007-01-08 16:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was like I was actually listening to you talk and I didn't understand anything you said.
I'd like to help but you have to write differently than how you would normally speak. Does that make sense?
2007-01-08 16:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much bcs cus nds. my head is spinning outta control. lol
2007-01-08 16:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by max p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always ask him out, and then you'd be able to figure out your feelings. Things are different today, then in my day, and it's OK for you to ask him.
2007-01-08 16:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mabey if u learn how to acctuly type rite mabeyyy just maybe ppl will understand u and give u advice
2007-01-08 16:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by cheergal4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Tell Him. Talk to him about it. Dont be so shy if you like him.
2007-01-08 16:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by elb366 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋