my boyfriend every time we have sex finish first i love him dearly but i am never satisfied how do i even start conversation about this with him or how can i solve this without even mentioning to him but by showing him if i say anything abouth him being mr speedy he will be hurt
2007-01-08 08:45:22 · 9 answers · asked by nina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many men have this problem...possibly your foreplay lasts too long? When he tries to get inside, tell him you want to be selfish and finish first before he can. He may a little shocked but if he truly cares for you he will make it a habit of making you happy first
2007-01-08 08:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by jennw33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to say something and anything you say will sting a little but it must be done. Why not tell him you need a little more time before he actually penetrates you. Why not play with yourself so he can watch and learn. Get yourself to the front door then let him in. He will get the point.
2007-01-08 16:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him inside until you've been satisfied by other methods or get him off once before you start...the second time usually takes longer to finish.
2007-01-08 16:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bob R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy's first orgasm is usually the fastest. You start with BJ to get his fist orgasm out of the way then he can focus on pleasuring you orally, and mean while he should get him hard again. The second time around he will most likely last longer
2007-01-08 17:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to be patient with him. It will take time before he gets it right.
Second you have to talk to him about it. This is not a problem that will solve its self. And he may not even think it is a problem.
Third, you really have to condition him to control himself. I am sure there are books on it. But basically you have to work with him to take it slow. It may take time.
2007-01-08 16:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him go more into foreplay. Make him satisfy you before he gets started.
2007-01-08 16:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need more foreplay before the actual act there should be a time to explore each other give him a massage. make sure your satisfide before the act
2007-01-08 16:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I told mine if there was a way to make it longer.
2007-01-08 17:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by lateine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be greedy make him do you 1st stop holding back and let it flow
2007-01-08 16:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋