I have a friend who I think is dating somebody secretly or he thinks it is a secret. She I think really likes him but he says he wants nothing more to do with her but I think is secretly dating her or he thinks it is a secret. But, he flirts with other women as well making them feel special or he thinks he is. The guy has been married like four times and I think is confused about things. I know women do this, too. I am not saying just guys do it. Any suggestions?
2007-01-08 08:43:42 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Refuse to date anyone who will not allow thei relationship with you to be out in the open. Any time someone wants to hide a relationship, it's a bad sign. Refuse to cooperate: tell the person explicitly that you are not ashamed of dating them and are not afraid if people know that you are dating them, and if they don't feel the same way about you, maybe you don't have a reason to be dating.
2007-01-08 08:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it to. Secretly dating someone allows him to still play the field and see if someone better comes along. So, by keeping it a secret he can flirt and possibly date other women without thinking he is taken.
2007-01-08 08:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am disgusted by bad boys. I mean, they think they can just get anybody! Which is why I would never, ever want to think about having a relationship with them. But yes...they can be quite charming sometimes...of course I'm attracted to them. [: so it's a yes, yes.
2016-05-23 13:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your umm, friend needs to leave this guy alone. He doesn't respect her or her feelings. Men are stupid that way or rather should I say most men.
2007-01-08 08:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by miss info 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not confused, he's using your friend for companionship, sex, whatever until he finds someone he likes better.
2007-01-08 08:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he dont like her or feel ashamed about her or he just wnna bang her
2007-01-08 08:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by quigon j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to make himself appear single to any girls that may ask.
2007-01-08 08:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋