I like this guy I know at work who I walk with (and two other people -- 4 of us walk every day. We went out to shows and had dinner twice in December(things I had told him about). I like to see him more... Is it ok to bring up activities and see if he'd like to go or should I drop it because it won't work if "HE" is not asking me to do anything.... He's 43 never married no kids. I'm 35 same.
2007-01-08 08:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by supergirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and I don't want to just hang out... he's more important than that to me...
2007-01-11 00:31:03 · update #1
He might be too scared to ask, go for it what do you have to lose? This is not the old days where women sit around waiting for a man to make the first move, These days Women are more aggressive, if you continue to go and do things together you will build a friendship that may go further one day.
2007-01-08 08:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men never seem to appreciate anything they didn't have to work for. Being the one to always make the suggestions leaves nothing for him to do. And if he's not the one that's eager to come up with activities to get to hang out with you I think that's a red flag too. I truly believe that the man must do the asking and the courting or else its down hill.
2007-01-08 08:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO don't do it. Everytime I've pursued a man (as opposed to him pursuing me), it has gone nowhere.
I am 35 too. So, if he is that into you he will call you and set a date!
2007-01-08 08:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? And ask him if he wants to see you romanticaly. he may think that you're just being friendly because you work together.
2007-01-08 08:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...bring up activities...I'd like that...If he acts disinterested, he ain't into you. If your gonna start asking guys out you gotta learn the signs.
Welcome to the our world.
2007-01-08 08:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what u feel is right missy - you will get it right - i have faith in you
2007-01-08 08:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by jamincoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now a days it is OK.
2007-01-08 08:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋