Children's Weight??

Question

Help! I have a seven year old son. He's very tall for his age, he'll be over 6 foot for sure when he an adult! Recently my mum has been going on about him getting 'fat' and asking if i'm going to the doctor as he might have a throid problem and its really getting me down. Ok, so he has a tubby belly and a round face but he is NOT fat. Please don't say that hes my son and I should take no notice of her as I can't. My wee boy eats well as I do and I've told her as its dark early hes not running about as much.I mentioned this to my friend who mentioned puberty!!?? Help!!! Anyone!!!

my son swims and plays golf and runs about constantly, hes not a lazy boy. Its just annoying me.

Answer 1

I also have a large boy. 18 months old and wearing age 3-4 years!! They say he will probably reach 6 feet 5 inches! We give his clothes to his 3 year old sister as he grows out of them!
You will just have to let the comments roll off as if you know that you are doing your utmost to keep him active and eating healthily then you are not doing anything wrong.
People are getting bigger with each generation due to improved nutrition.
You could always get the doctor or nurse to check him over if you are worried (or others are making you worry) then at least you can turn around and say to them that the doc says he is ok.
People always compare children and it is mightily unfair as they are all different. Just enjoy your son. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Please make sure you and esp your man aren't making weight comments where your son can hear,my older lad carried puppy fat and kids bullied him,some adults passed comment and as a result I had a son who became very secretive about his eating habits,and withdrawn because of it. Your son is too young for puberty and to be honest at 7 it is prob just puppy fat that he'll grow out of when he hits his teen years.Just make sure he eats a healthy diet and try and get some execise at least once a week. Just don't make a huge issue out of it,for your sons sake, he'll grow into his body given a few years.

Answer 3

on no account should you let your mother tell the child he is fat, but as his mother you control what he eats. at times of inactivity, be proactive in what you fix for dinner...sneak in healthy, highfiber ingredients that fill you up faster for less calories and better nutrition, and keep healthy snacks, like fruit, popcorn, fresh veggies and cheese, not all that processed junk that isn't good for anyone. it is never too early to get your son involved in fixing dinner, too, so that he learns to cook (this will be healthier for him in the long run, studies show that college kids who cook for themselves as opposed to dorm food are healthier), and learns about the different types of food and how they work with your body. but, again, telling your child, or letting someone else criticize your child's weight is more likely to cause depression and weight gain--better to take a broader approach that the whole family needs to start eating better and finding ways to exercise (which is probably true, as most of us need it) than focusing in on a seven year old. of course, next time you are at the doctor's, it is a good idea to get his opinion, childhood obesity is a huge problem in this country, and if he does happen to have a thyroid condition, it is treatable, and better to know. does he have any other symptoms, like being tired all the time, sleeping more than normal, mood swings? my dad just got diagnosed with thyroid problems, and they said these were some of the symptoms. untreated, it can cause more health problems than just over weight. good luck

Answer 4

all kids grow at different speeds

don't worry about it

if you feel happy with the way your son is and you know in your mind that nothing is wrong with him then just let him be

he will have enough time to sort out how he wants to look when he gets older.


my own seven year old is smaller in height and build than his 5 year old sister
the health visitor and doctor just said not to worry as he is healthy and active and will grow when he is ready to


good luck to you both.

Answer 5

you will know if u feel ur sons over weight. Just make sure he aint eatin too much rubbish and doin some kind of exercise. How does your son feel? does he think he's over weight? school will hav him doing sport, dont we all pile on the pounds at some stage? weight is too much of an issue in this world and too much for a seven yr old lad to have to think about

Answer 6

If your mom is making comments to your son or when he can hear them tell your mom that until she stops making such hurtful remarks she will not be allowed to see her grandson.

Otherwise if she is just making the comments to you tell her that you are sorry she has concerns but you know what is right for your children and the topic is closed. Just firmly remind her each time she brings it up that you are not interested in discussing it with her.

Answer 7

i wouldn't worry about it unless you become concerned, my daughter was plump at the age of 7 until she started senior school ...then the next minute i know she is a healthy 16 yr old size 8

Answer 8

7 y/o kids don't get puberty! Not even GIRLS. He's seven. Give him a break. But don't let it go too far.

Answer 9

Hes seven. Hes not going through puberty yet. And no parent wants to admit their kid is chubby or fat. So of course the lovely discription of "round" comes into play. Tell your kid to get off the internet and playstation/TV and go outside and play. Make sure he has a gym class in school and provide healthy balanced meals for him. If hes as tall as you say then he shouldnt be pudgy/

Answer 10

have a dr. look at him