I dont' know why but all the sudden this is starting to get to me. I'm a girl who has always been really tall. I'm 5'7" and still not done growing. This might not seem that tall but all of my friends are much shorter and and super skinny. (You know, the cheerleader body) I don't know, i just find myself being jelouse somtimes. They can fit into tiny tiny clothes...and they always look great. I'm not fat by any means, i have a flat stomache, but i have hips and i am very curvy, and i just feel out of place because all of my other friends are 5'3" and wear size 0 pants... What can i do to make myself feel better? Should i feel like this?
2007-01-08 07:45:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Don't worry, there are advantages to your height. I am the same height.
Do you know what looks really hot? A tall woman like yourself wearing a miniskirt, pretty feminine top (something more conservative because you are already showing your legs-it's not good to show too much skin everywhere) and cute wedges or high heel strappy sandals. If you don't like miniskirts, pretty summer dresses that provide good coverage up top, but show some leg, and wedges or strappy high heel sandals are hot too. You will be the envy of all your friends with your long sexy legs.
I'm not sure how old you are, perhaps you are too young to wear these clothes, but one day you will be old enough. I would still recommend pretty, feminine dresses in the summer with sandals, they keep you cool on a hot day and you will look pretty.
2007-01-08 07:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by funandsun20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember as time goes on this is the best your friends are ever going to look. some people look really good when they're younger but when they get a little older........look out, things take a turn for the worse. I'm thinking that your going to get better as time goes on. So your curvy.....so what. As a guy I prefer my women with meat on their bones, not some skinny looking twig that may get cold when it's 70 degrees out because they have a messed up system. If your mom has hips or dad or their parents there's not much you can do. Just don't be eating the quick foods/junk foods, drink plenty of water daily, and be active. You have nothing to be jealous about, it's a wasted emotion. Most of the curvy chicks I know are happier and lots more pleasant to be with then the little skinny ones. I will take a curvy and pleasant or skinny and snotty any day.
2007-01-08 08:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research female model, actresses and superstars that are tall with a similar build. Then you will realize that you may actually have an advantage over everyone of your friends. Brook Shields is very tall and Christy Brinkley as well. I'm sure there are many women built like you that are super successful. Besides look at it from this angle, all your friends look up to you!
2007-01-08 07:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel a bit self conscious about yourself, especially if you are young. The thing is, you can't change who you are, and even if you could, you don't need to. You don't have to be exactly like your friends, they will like you either way. Anyways, super skinny is not healthy. And someone who wears size 0 pants will not be happier or more fulfilled in life than someone who is a normal weight. As for the height, I wouldn't worry about it. My aunt was 6 ft when she was in high school and she is still one of the most popular people I know.
2007-01-08 07:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by jerrri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that (at least from my experiences) guys dont want girls that have nothing to them. curvey is good and in my opinion looks way better then a girl with no ***, boobs, or hips and theights... be proud of yourself and go shopping for some clothes that flatter your body. a size zero in pants is just retarted. I wear usually a 5 in pants and people are always telling me im too skinny. just work out and get some deffinition to that stomach, get ur betty button pierced or something. ^.^
2007-01-08 07:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mindless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 00:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by minogue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to embrace yourself. a size 0 at 5'3" may seem great, but height makes you stand out in a crowd. I know that doesn't sound great now, but in 10 years it will be awesome. I am 5'10" and in high school I was pretty thin but it was my height and presence that made me really stand out. Always hold your head high and treat yourself like the queen you are, people will notice that.
2007-01-08 08:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheerleaders peak in high school. don't feel bad. guys like tall girls. models are tall. if you're worried about the guy aspect. i can tell you right now. high school guys got nothing on college guys. so hang in there.
2007-01-08 07:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Decoy 2.0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop this line of thought right now! You are perfect the way you are, accept this and move on. If you fixate on your non-issues you will end up a mess.
2007-01-08 07:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Weasel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that points out, that you are going to turn out to be a beautiful,so dont worry about it,enjoy being a kid.
2007-01-08 07:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋