I know i'm gud, but my bf has said that theres a little room for improvement, do you think he's doin that to make me work my *** off?!
2007-01-08 07:43:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 22, he's 38, I think that he's trying that psychological ****
2007-01-08 07:47:14 · update #1
Funny, I've always been the one that the ladies complain needs to get better in bed and when it comes to such things, I LISTEN. It takes so little to please me in bed but some woman need more and I'm most happy to comply. I may not like what they want but trying new things is a lot of fun from time to time.
The main thing is talk it over and go from there but don't ever fake anything in bed, it will mislead him into thinking the wrong way.
2007-01-08 07:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're chum Kevin appears like somewhat a jerk. "loopy" women folk are more effective probably to do a guy like Kevin. i don't believe that - i pick a sane woman. i'd no longer be a ideal lover, yet I honestly do not pick a lunatic training me it truly is no longer real - i'm an incurable romantic. it truly is all about the leadup - having a lady commence nerve-racking about the planned invasion from Pluto, will extremely kill the mood. i imagine you may be more effective in contact consisting of your guyfriend's psychological well being, than you may be nerve-racking about the chicks. There ARE some women folk that love sex - and teach it - yet they have by no ability given me any indication that they are certifiably loopy. Take it from a guy it really is been round - it truly is no longer real. i have had staggering fans that appeared completely sane. Kevin looks to choose manic women folk to make him experience like a guy. Who the hell is your chum to be judging every person - by way of her looks, or by way of the manic seem in her eyes? there's a distinction. i am going to seem at at a extremely woman and by no ability experience ashamed, yet i won't be able to prey on her because she may be susceptible - it really is basically low. adult men are meant to guard women folk - no longer victimize them. Kevin sounds immature, and probably different issues - he probable doesn't comprehend what the time period "good lover" ability. He probably SUCKS contained in the sack for most commonplace women folk. Your chum appears like one of those ideal a*****e My secret for having a good lover? ASK her. If she's no longer too shy, she'll allow you to comprehend... "somewhat more effective to the right - somewhat left - oohhh, yeah." those are the suitable sorts of fans. each of the moaning and yelling doesn't make a lady a good lover - in consumer-friendly words the loopy ones imagine that. you are able to in consumer-friendly words tell if a lady is sweet in mattress by way of hopping in consisting of her, and he or she'll allow you to comprehend - in spite of the undeniable fact that it probably is basically no longer by way of the noise.
2016-12-28 10:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends if he's putting in the same effort. If he's willing to talk to you about what he does and doesn't like (and ask if there are things he could do for you), that's positive. But if he just expects you to be a porn star while he lays there enjoying it, I'd be making his **** work harder too! lol
2007-01-08 07:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think he's trying to tell you that you need to step up your game in the bedroom. In other words don't be afraid to let yourself go and experiment and yeah work your *** off.
2007-01-08 07:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, because it is usually the other way around where as the gal has to tell the guy how to please us. A lot of it has to do with there own insecurities too because they really do want to please us. Some guys it is more important to please the woman then themselves. It's cool they get off on it..It's a pride thing.
2007-01-08 07:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means better for HIM. All guys like slightly different things at different times he's wanting you to please him his way. Tell him he could be better too (I'm sure it's true) and tell him how. Done right this could be fun and empowering for you both.
2007-01-08 07:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2007-01-08 07:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, my boyfriend just told me that today.. but it was a little off the topic ur sayin but basicly same thing. idk. just do what makes him happy! i know i am!
2007-01-08 07:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's personal isn't it tmi
2007-01-08 07:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..Tell him to perform better...
2007-01-08 07:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by ibeboatin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋