Right, theres a girl I know and I've told her how I feel about her. Although I'm sure it wasn't about me she broke up with her boyfriend a few days after. A couple of days ago she told me she likes me too, but she also said she's not after a realtionship. She has made blatent attempts in getting to know me better (which I have returned) but I'm stuck as to what to do next. I don't really want to ask her out on a date because I'm a shy guy and I don't want to screw things up. Also she did only just break up with her old boyfriend. I know I cant wait too long because she is a very pretty girl and will be 'snapped up' soon. The only thing I can think of is a group date but I don't want to call it that just incase I scare her off. What do I do next and how do I ask her?
Thanks in advance :)
2007-01-08 07:35:29 · 8 answers · asked by brap_brap_bape 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear brap
Here's a better way of getting a date: "Suggest" instead
of "ask".
Next time you meet a girl you like, flirt with her,
get some rapport going, and talk about her hobbies. You know,
the things she likes doing in her spare time.
If she comes across something that you enjoy doing as
well...or if she sounds interested in one of YOUR hobbies
or favourite activities, suggest doing it together with her.
Watch her reaction closely. If she seems receptive of the idea,
then set up a date and close for her number. It works almost every
single time for me!
2007-01-08 07:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she just broke off with her boyfriend she probably just needs time to get over him, that's why she said that to you.
Right now if you want to spend time with her try arranging a group event like bowling or a party or something like that and invite her along with allot of other people. That wont make her feel uncomfortable or singled out.
If she comes, then you can play it by ear, if not, don't be discouraged she may just be laying low for awhile after her breakup.
Above all let her see the real you, what's inside, your personality, your sense of humour etc. Woman like that. Men are more visual, woman are more into what is inside.
Good Luck!
2007-01-08 15:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if shes not into a relationship right now how about being a couple that theres no pressure from either party, go off and do couply things but don't push for anything more until shes ready, its amazing how women work, this has worked for me in the past..
2007-01-08 15:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by dan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew but in a perfect world i would talk to her about my feelings and how she feels and after she did try to talk to you and to know you better i think she is some kind of ready for a new realtionship
2007-01-08 15:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by vamy189 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend, sounds like thats what she wants...laugh at her jokes...smile at her...be there for her...get over that being shy thing or expect her to be snapped up sooner than you think...women are attracted to a man that will go out of their way to do something for them...inconvenience them self for her benefit
2007-01-08 15:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate just ask her how she would feel about going for a drink with you
2007-01-08 16:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by jamincoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out and don't b shy about it, it's normal thing to ask someone out
2007-01-08 15:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by bad person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and ask her if she'll be your g/f. as easy as that.
2007-01-08 15:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋