Ok girls..I have known this man for 12 years. I have known him when he was separated and divorced...but we lost contact with each other. So october of this year..we hook up through a mutual friend. He at this time..is married again. I have had 1 son 3 years ago. We missed each other terribly and we had sex in october (safe sex) and once on Dec. 20th..Safe Sex. My period skipped late last month. I rememer the condom breaking when we had (ahem...anal sex) but i think it may have tore before that? In all my 35 years..i have never been late. I say i am going to have an abortion if i am..I take the blood test this week..but im not sure. I know in my heart i would only do it for him..not to ruin his marriage. Aside from me having sex with a married man, This is a consequence..that we both are responsible for. I dont want an abortion..and i dont want him around to pressure me. I have a good job and can make it without help. Any suggestions. Oh yea..he is a gorgeous 57 years old
2007-01-08 07:25:27 · 8 answers · asked by Katreise R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As far as my priorities go.. I have a wonderful executive job at a prestigious college...i make good money..and im a great girl. But i tell you this. You cant help who you love. And its not a fling.
2007-01-08 08:41:43 · update #1
You have to ask yourself if you can live with yourself if you go through with the abortion. Is it something that will weigh on your conscience forever? Or will you be comfortable that you made the right decision and move on with your life?
This is completely your decision - no one else has the right to tell you to have the baby or not.
2007-01-08 07:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by ldgbt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you talk to this man you might want to tell him other wise dont tell him and raise the child alone because its not the babies fault that you were with a married man..but umm i guess you have to do what you think is right but having an abortion will be hard on you its always hard on people they go through a guilt period in there life and beings that you are a mom you child isnt gonna like seeing you so sad all the time i think its best if you tell the married man how longs has he been married and does he have kids himself i think he should marry you cuz then hes not hurting his wife hes with now and not hurting you idk your in a mess i hope i helped good luck hope for the best.
2007-01-08 07:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by mikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should have only used the back door. Do you have a niceass? I am married and looking for a non-commital relationship, esp with a woman that takes it in the poochute. Are you cute? What state are you in? I would love to pack your fudge.
2007-01-09 10:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by cxngbfutr n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look I'm not going to nock you every man needs a ho e sometimes,you should get an abortion and keep your mouth shut about it and domt hit him for child support,,,, next time ( iknow there will be) get on birth control or sick with oral and anal sex and remember no as s to mouth!
2007-01-11 15:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You really need to get your priorities in order. Do you really want to be a sex toy for him whenever he feels his current fling is dull?
2007-01-08 07:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Waverly Pascale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Serves you right .. you shouldn't be sleeping around. Next time keep you legs closed.
2007-01-08 07:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
serves you right .. messing with a married man! shame on you.
2007-01-08 07:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
then don't have one
2007-01-08 07:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by heaven l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋