my boyfriend is away at school which is also where his ex goes to school states away from me when i call him he never answers his phone he will wait around 5 minutes to call me back thats if he does call me back is he goin away from his other gurls to call me back or is he really just not by the phone like he says?
2007-01-08 06:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by lovergurl1on1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl... you should have a talk with him and tell him exactly how you feel. I think you guys need a break. About him cheating.. you have to ask yourself can you really trust him? Has he cheated in the past? Just have a talk with him and explain to him your fears and feelings.
Good Luck Girlie!
2007-01-08 06:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Brianna i hate to be the one to tell you but it does seem as though something is going on especially if it happens all the time. I could understand if it happened only a few times but....... do some more digging before you actually acuse him of anything. I mean being away at school he could be busy with school and not by the phone so just know that it is possible. So dig a little deeper before you do something that you could regret
2007-01-08 15:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by twelve_play_xxx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was going through the same thing for a minute with my boyfriend. If you know him then trust that he isnt cheating on you unless you have reason to believe otherwise. Maybe he isnt by the phone you nevrer know, I mean you aren't there to see. Just trust him and everything will work out for your good in the end.
2007-01-08 14:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. Chavis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately there isn't enough info here to say one way or the other but if you have been with him for a long time then you must know the kind of guy he is and that can be a positive or a negative thing but that is for you to know...i will tell you this....when i was in college I was faithful to my girl but a guy "convinced" her that I HAD TO BE cheating while i was away and she then cheated on me thinking that I was doing the same to her....it still hurts to think about and that was many years ago...be careful, be smart cause in the end, you probalby know if he is being faithful or not, just listen to yourself
2007-01-08 14:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more than likely if he wanted to get your calls and keep in touch with you he would, he would find a way and make the effort. It seems as if he's not, now ofcourse I dont know all the details of his life out there but I doubt theres any real reason for him not to be able to accomplish this, so your gut feelings are probly right theres probly something going on here that you dont know about, good luck Kim
2007-01-08 14:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk about paranoid! If you're so concerned about what he's doing ask him only he can tell you what he's doing. If you feel that you have a trust issue with him then let him go and get someone that you can see what he's doing on a daily basis. You seem like you don't trust him and that's not a healthy relationship. Make yourself happy and move on, let him go.
2007-01-08 14:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me guess, you are still in high school and he is away at college. Time to find someone closer to home. You both will be happier.
2007-01-08 15:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one but usually when a girl feels her boyfriend or spouse is cheating the feeling usually is right
2007-01-08 14:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. Take it from someone who has seen everything and done everything--at least 10 times.
2007-01-08 14:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by rex_razor69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have trust then you don't have a relationship.Move on and find a local boyfriend.
2007-01-08 14:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋