my girlfriend recently broke up with me...she told me that she was annoyed of me being worried about her cheating on me. though i think i was right in being worried since she cheated on me with a couple of guys. but anyway she said she wants to b with other guys. then like a couple of hours later she tells me she loves me like a million times. what should i do?? ive tried everything in the book and it doesnt work!!!! =(
2007-01-08 06:49:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old is she? Seems like she has strong feelings for you but still wants to play the field. She isn't ready for anything serious. Give her time and everything will work itself out. If you are meant to be together you will be together.
2007-01-08 06:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by MISS KNIGHT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Why not tell her? It's what you're feeling. 2.This doesn't even make any sense. Keep up the act, for what? So you can watch her and her new boyfriend while you hang out on the sidelines? Yeah--maybe she'll invite you to the wedding... Honey--life is too short for this b**ls**t. And it is b**ls**t! Tell her that you can't be friends with her and WHY you can't be friends with her anymore... Y'know--I don't fully get people that want to hang out with exes as friends. It confuses things especially after a fresh breakup--and there's usually a hidden agenda. But whatever--she doesn't want to be with you (from what you say) So I think you should make a clean break and if u do stay away from her until the feelings die down. But it all matters in how you approach her with the situation. Don't go acting like a dribbling mess. Say something like, "....When I told you I was over it I wasn't being entirely truthful....maintaining a friendship with you this soon after our breakup is hard for me..." Blah, blah, blah... The longer you stay in this mess the worse you'll feel. If she feels no chemistry then you should move.
2016-05-23 11:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stay with someone who cheated on you not once, but with a couple of guys?? Do you not have any self-respect?? Just tell her it's over, and not to call you anymore! Don't answer her calls, don't answer the door if she comes by, don't have any contact with her at all if possible. I don't care who you are or what you look like, you CAN DO BETTER! Any more questions?
2007-01-08 07:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, do not get back with her. This is a lesson that she is going to have to learn. If you truly care about someone, you would NOT cheat on them, especially more than once! No way! You deserve way better than that! You want to be with someone who wants to be with you, not with you and ten other people. She thought she could have her cake and eat it too and now she's screwed because she let you go and realized what she was missing. My advice is to let it go. Don't get back with her. Let her learn from her own mistakes. Maybe in the future, she'll treat the next guy with more respect.
2007-01-08 06:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Koko Loco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 18:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cleora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. And it sure doesn't seem like she loves you if she be cheating with not one guy but 2.
2007-01-08 06:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-10 15:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no move on, if she loved u should would not have cheated on u.. I dont think u want to be hurt again
2007-01-08 06:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who isn't a flake or a *****. Sorry but she's already cheated on you twice, you've given her enough chances, you're better off alone!
2007-01-08 06:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her go and do her thing. She will always come back to you. You don't need to be with someone you don't wonna be with you. She will always have love for you.
2007-01-08 06:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by dominique e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋