2007-01-08 06:49:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I could not spend the rest of my life with a man who does not feel romance, sexual attraction, or love for me. We would be best friends and get along, and love each other to some extent, but it wouldn't be happy for us. Or for the children.
If a gay man or gay couple asked me to be a surrogate mother, I would consider.
2007-01-08 06:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Yalena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a man is gay but still wants a family I think that he should either adopt a child with his life partner or maybe come up with an arrangement with a female to use his sperm & have her carry the child to full term for him.
If you are gay, you can never be 100% commieted to female so why go through all that just to have a family. You have options & I suggest you utilize them. Dont disrupt the female's life & yours if you really dont want to be with a woman.
2007-01-08 15:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is no gay, he just likes being with men and for some reason he thinks he is gay. Maybe he is bi, but not gay.
Gay men dont fall in love with women. Gay men just dont love women that way. He is just someone who grew up wanting to be different and draw attention and being gay is the only way he could find to do this.
Move on, find someone normal
2007-01-08 14:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually know someone married to a gay man for "convenience". It works for them. They have separate lives and relationships outside the home, but combine their finances and are very good parentsto their (3) children. You have to be extremely mature and set ground rules before getting into something like this.
2007-01-08 14:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. For one thing, if he's gay he shouldn't want a family with me. For another thing, I wouldn't want my children to have a bad influence for a father. I think women who allow men to have children with them and continue sick relations with members of their same sex, need help. I would hope that no woman would reduce herself so low. Thank you and GOD bless.
2007-01-08 14:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically, since I'm married already ... Not if he plans to ever "participate" in the gay lifestyle, meaning if he will be having sex with other men at any point.
2007-01-08 14:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, because the relationship would never be the same as if I was married to a straight man.
2007-01-08 14:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by shallybles 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You say you love him but does he love you? I don't know ...that would be too weird for the kids. I don't think that would make a good long term situation for anybody. I don't think so but then again Ihave never been in that situation. good luck!
2007-01-08 14:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no because to start a family u need love and + hes gay it doesnt make sense
2007-01-08 14:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try to change him and definitely not let him be with other men. I know you will say that you can't change them, but everything's worth a try.
Some gay men are really handsome and nice.
2007-01-08 14:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋