the only person he is having sex with. His response was dont I think that is a personal question to ask him. I dont think it is too personal. He is the only one I am sleeping with so why cant or wont he answer the question. Should I take his answer as no I am not the only one he is sleeping with? Help please.
2007-01-08 06:40:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a personal question but if you are sleeping with him then you deserve to know the truth because it is also a safety question. If you want to be safe then you should know the answer and be able to make an informed decision of whether or not to continue sleeping with him.
I would assume from his response that he is or would. Not necessarily the case though. Just tell him why you want to know, for health reasons. (sleep with too many people and you end up diseased)
2007-01-08 06:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop having sex with a guy that is not your significant other. He dissed you big time, by replying that is too personal. If you aren't using condoms you are definitely a future aids candidate since he blatantly stated he has sex with more than one person. Are you that desparate to sleep with someone in a meaningless relationship? WHERE ARE YOUR MORALS AND SELF RESPECT?
2007-01-08 14:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal question yes but for the fact that you r sleeping with him he shouldn't b personal towards you like your a stranger and it seems like his hiding something so I would take it as he is sleeping with someone else. I was in a simluar position
2007-01-08 14:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by pj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes--I think it's safe to assume that he's sleeping with other people and doesn't view your relationship as 'exclusive.' He was definitely avoiding having to answer your question and your question was not 'too personal' in view of your relationship. He sounds like a jerk that deserves to be dumped and I hope you do just that. Find someone else that wants an exclusive sexual relationship instead.
2007-01-08 14:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a 49 y/o man I would say that's exactly what it means! You're a good steady piece to him, that's all. If you're uncomfortable in that position, tell him to take a hike, and find someone that cares more about you: Not just what's between your legs. We all yes even me -and I'm old and crude-, have and need more than just physical feelings.
2007-01-08 14:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by jrsabbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't answer that question then I would take it as yes he is sleeping with others......If he wasn't why would that be too personal and hard for him to tell you....What you don't know wont hurt you...
2007-01-08 14:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically he has not answered ur question but his reply implies that he is sleeping with someone else. Talk to him. See whats really going on. Let him know whats what and then y'all will know where to go from there.
2007-01-08 14:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want a man he will marry u; when u do it out of wedlock your telling him i dont care for a serious relationship; any sex out of marriage is vanity.
2007-01-08 14:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he couldn't just say a simple "yes," the you are not the only person he is having sex with.
and you also cant assume that you are, when you two are not in a committed relationship.
2007-01-08 14:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously, ur not the only one he's sleeping with if thats what u,re askin... in my opinion u shd give him the cold shoulder... stop sleeping with him and find urself another guy who'd appreciate u and be faithful to you..
2007-01-08 14:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by marwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋